"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If a woman online says she's after a sugar daddy,what do you say back ?

KL70

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I want to ask more advanced guys here, what's your take on a HB (from her profile photo/s) who replies (without even having seen or requested your photo/s of what you look like) and says she's after a sugar daddy and already asks for your number. In other words, she's probably wanting to be paid to hook up with you.

I'm not that desperate that I'd take her up, but irrespective of the chick's looks, do you avoid women online like that like the plague and / or do you (or have you, if you've had that) replied back to them and humorously ball busted - sh!t tested them (either way, how do you, or how did you), knowing they probably won't reply back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't say anything back and just keep things moving
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJuan11

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KL70 said:
I'm not that desperate that I'd take her up, but irrespective of the chick's looks, do you avoid women online like that like the plague and / or do you (or have you, if you've had that) replied back to them and humorously ball busted - sh!t tested them (either way, how do you, or how did you), knowing they probably won't reply back.
You don't waste your time unless you want to pay them to hang out with you.
 

dipset_mafia

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tell her that she can have some sugar when she's calling you daddy,
and if she asks you to clarify, refuse.
tell her you're looking for a sugar mama, and poor sluts turn you off
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lifeforce

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Tell her to **** off. She's just a ***** with pretty face.
 

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You can start haggling. She's pretty much told you what she is.
 

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"Sorry, i'm on Atkins."

"Sugar? Please, i'll invest my time and money elsewhere."

"There's sugar in what i want to give you. Does that count?"

"You must be a horse if you want Sugar."

"I'll refer you to my idiot boss, Drain him for all he's got."

"More Sugar? Have you ever heard of Diabetes?"


I think you can glean from my answers my response would be an emphatic NO.
 
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