"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a woman online says she's after a sugar daddy,what do you say back ?

KL70

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I want to ask more advanced guys here, what's your take on a HB (from her profile photo/s) who replies (without even having seen or requested your photo/s of what you look like) and says she's after a sugar daddy and already asks for your number. In other words, she's probably wanting to be paid to hook up with you.

I'm not that desperate that I'd take her up, but irrespective of the chick's looks, do you avoid women online like that like the plague and / or do you (or have you, if you've had that) replied back to them and humorously ball busted - sh!t tested them (either way, how do you, or how did you), knowing they probably won't reply back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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smtimex

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I wouldn't say anything back and just keep things moving
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan11

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KL70 said:
I'm not that desperate that I'd take her up, but irrespective of the chick's looks, do you avoid women online like that like the plague and / or do you (or have you, if you've had that) replied back to them and humorously ball busted - sh!t tested them (either way, how do you, or how did you), knowing they probably won't reply back.
You don't waste your time unless you want to pay them to hang out with you.
 

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tell her that she can have some sugar when she's calling you daddy,
and if she asks you to clarify, refuse.
tell her you're looking for a sugar mama, and poor sluts turn you off
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lifeforce

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Tell her to **** off. She's just a ***** with pretty face.
 

Jitterbug

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You can start haggling. She's pretty much told you what she is.
 

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"Sorry, i'm on Atkins."

"Sugar? Please, i'll invest my time and money elsewhere."

"There's sugar in what i want to give you. Does that count?"

"You must be a horse if you want Sugar."

"I'll refer you to my idiot boss, Drain him for all he's got."

"More Sugar? Have you ever heard of Diabetes?"


I think you can glean from my answers my response would be an emphatic NO.
 
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