Robert_F
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The title is a question asked of me by this lady friend I know. I thought it was kind of an interesting question, so I decided to post it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If A Man Could Get Pregnant, Would He Want Sex As Much?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Glumix
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That's a funny question that shows the complete misunderstanding of most female, including your lady friend, regarding social dynamics and their own nature and s€xuality.
Fear of pregnancy never stopped a women to get fvcked on the backsit of a van. They know how to handle condom and birth control. They also know exactly when they are fertile or not during their month.
What prevent women to get overtly sexual is esteem of others and lack of security. That's the only things that prevent women to overtly show interest in s€x as much as men do. Not pregnancy.
Actually, they want s€x as much as men. But they are tied to their own nature and weakness. Which is good and it's not going to change anytime soon.
Women who fvck every men they cross the path of are low value. Sociopathic women don't give a sh!t about what's socialy acceptable and get fvcked by 10 different men a week-end.
A "normal" woman will never do that. You will have to isolate her, put some confidence and security in your interaction and escalate from there. Women hate to be the one who initiate s€x out of a standard relationship. It's a red flag actually.
A man handles his own security and his esteem will actually be boosted by the fact he fvcks. He would handle pregnancy with birth control and that's it.
Though, I suggest you do not educate her on all that but keep it for you and game her.
Fear of pregnancy never stopped a women to get fvcked on the backsit of a van. They know how to handle condom and birth control. They also know exactly when they are fertile or not during their month.
What prevent women to get overtly sexual is esteem of others and lack of security. That's the only things that prevent women to overtly show interest in s€x as much as men do. Not pregnancy.
Actually, they want s€x as much as men. But they are tied to their own nature and weakness. Which is good and it's not going to change anytime soon.
Women who fvck every men they cross the path of are low value. Sociopathic women don't give a sh!t about what's socialy acceptable and get fvcked by 10 different men a week-end.
A "normal" woman will never do that. You will have to isolate her, put some confidence and security in your interaction and escalate from there. Women hate to be the one who initiate s€x out of a standard relationship. It's a red flag actually.
A man handles his own security and his esteem will actually be boosted by the fact he fvcks. He would handle pregnancy with birth control and that's it.
Though, I suggest you do not educate her on all that but keep it for you and game her.
marmel75
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Yeah cause you'd have something hundreds of times more sensitive and arousing in a cl!t
El Payaso
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There are more ways than ever to prevent unwanted pregnancies but it hasn't prevented women from "not wanting sex as much as men".
It goes deeper than being able to pop out babies. The fact is that a woman can snap her fingers at any moment and have a man fvcking her immediately.
Women get tons of attention so they get to be selective. After a while, it becomes boring having sex offered to your from every angle.
For men to not want sex as much, they have to adopt the same abundance mentality that women have.
You see this in the top percentage of men who can sample their fingers and have pu$$y whenever they want.
So to answer your question, all things being the same, pregnancy wouldn't necessarily stop men from wanting sex as much.
It goes deeper than being able to pop out babies. The fact is that a woman can snap her fingers at any moment and have a man fvcking her immediately.
Women get tons of attention so they get to be selective. After a while, it becomes boring having sex offered to your from every angle.
For men to not want sex as much, they have to adopt the same abundance mentality that women have.
You see this in the top percentage of men who can sample their fingers and have pu$$y whenever they want.
So to answer your question, all things being the same, pregnancy wouldn't necessarily stop men from wanting sex as much.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bingo-Player
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a man will never be able to fully adopt the same abundance mentality that a woman has because he is not born with it , he has to work his fingers to the bone to get it
men will never understand the level of power women have in the dating/sex/realtionship world