“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"If a guy doesn't pay for you, you're not being treated like you're special. . . ."

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hitman10000 said:

I didn't get past the first two lines... "he was this and he was that". Yep, written by a woman. What? This article is in MSN's "money" section? Pssfff.

Upon moving my mouse to the "close" button, my eyes caught "Me - the feminist..."

Yep, definitely don't care what some feminist b¡tch has to say about, well, anything.

Horray for the sucker that took her off the market and spared the rest of us men the time of hitting on her, dating her, then realizing she was a retard and a waste of our time.

Man, it's sh¡t like this that makes me love the fact that there are SooooOOOoo many AFC's out there.
 

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"Special" treatment is earned.

That being said, that's why the first date should always be an inexpensive one. So you CAN pay and it's not like you're going out of your way. :)
 

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Amen, brother Vulpine! I concur. They (feminists) have literally launched an assault and the casualties of war is AFC men out there emptying their wallets left and right. I need VU to put it so eloquently in Army words! The victory was so complete its like the start of the movie "Red Dawn" where there's only a rag-tag band of surviving, free, and non-caged "Wolverine" DJs.
 

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Vulpine said:
I didn't get past the first two lines... ...
I took an eyeball snapshot of the first page and straight away "Me--feminist" jumped out at me like a rabid squirrel on crack and I could feel my synapse begin to fuse together. I wasn't going to continue reading that. However, it may be interesting if a few of us post replies to the article to stir things up. :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh yeah, anyone notice from her current picture that it looks like her husband continued to feed her pretty damn well? :p
 

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These type of articles are irritating, it's best not to read them. I wonder how many good men failed this test, and didn't get a 2nd date.

I find this annoying because if I ask a woman out, then I'm paying for the date because I invited her. I don't think of it as a reward, or being generous. I just don't think about, it's just money, not a big deal. I want to get to know her. That's what is important to me.

If this is the only reason I got a second date, and I found out about it, I'd be pissed!! She'd get nexted soooo fast her skirt would fly up.

All this article says is that all men are the same, with the exeption of payers and non-payers on the first date.
 

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I was brought up in the midwest, in the 60's/70's. Growing up, I understood that guys always paid. Girls paid when it was his birthday or special event. Any man that "went Dutch" or asked a woman to pay was considered "ungentlemanly", cheap and a horrible date. This is how I was raised.

Now my views are different. I like the first date to be a very cheap one, preferably coffee, and we go dutch. This way I can decide if I even want to spend two hours over dinner with this guy. I'm also suspicious about men who insist on 4 star restuarants on the second or third date. Like they think, "HOT DAMN! Third date! Take her somewhere nice and I'll get laid!"

Dating is about spending TIME not money.

If the girl likes your company, she'll be happy with peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches in the park. If she's a gold digger/ dinner hor, then she'll want the lobster dinner and the $80 wine, and will make you feel like crap if you don't give it to her.
 

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What's that word for someone giving sex for money ... know I've heard it before ... I think it begins with a "p" ...
 

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"If a girl doesn't suck you off, you're not being treated like you're special,..."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You got to give her some brownie points for admitting that she and her feminist sisters are hypocrites. Apparently Feminist dogma preaches financial independence ('except ' when it comes to paying your way on a date.) Then ,when it is financially and emotionally convenient to them , these mindless bimbos revert right back to the 'old dating game'. So pure feminisim and its practice are excluded from the dating ritual. Now, ain't that just like a woman.

Did anyone read another of my recent posts in which I claimed that women are creatures of expedience and convenience.

The prosecution rests it's case.
 
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I can't remember the last time I was on a "date" as most people would define it. Ten years ago, maybe?

Whoever said that dating sets the WRONG tone is a very intelligent person.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
"If a girl doesn't suck you off, you're not being treated like you're special,..."
:up:
 

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WaterTiger said:
...Dating is about spending TIME not money.
Hallelujah sister!!!! :rockon:
WaterTiger said:
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If the girl likes your company, she'll be happy with peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches in the park. If she's a gold digger/ dinner hor, then she'll want the lobster dinner and the $80 wine, and will make you feel like crap if you don't give it to her.
Preach it!!!! :rockon:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHkHrdgDjNY
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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