Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
crossboss said:If a girl touches you a lot, she wants to bang you. How many times is a lot? What if she smiles if she touches you, does that mean anything?
No, it means that she is a secret agent working for Loreal Paris skin products. And she smiled because she found a new skin condition that she could exploit to make millions off.crossboss said:If a girl touches you a lot, she wants to bang you. How many times is a lot? What if she smiles if she touches you, does that mean anything?
Uhh ohh...thats what i was afraid of...back to the drawing board.michaelhctam said:No, it means that she is a secret agent working for Loreal Paris skin products. And she smiled because she found a new skin condition that she could exploit to make millions off.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't say much because if you do, less people will respond.pimpaholicskip said:why do guys post a thread that is 2 lines long and expect REAL responses??
u lazy azz troll
go for 11 and then wait 3 months just to be sure.crossboss said:. So I was asking how many times does she have to touch you to be considered a lot, like 10? Since 5 might not be considered enough?
crossboss said:I don't say much because if you do, less people will respond.
Obviously most girls will bang a guy who they touch a lot. So I was asking how many times does she have to touch you to be considered a lot, like 10? Since 5 might not be considered enough?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Because on the 8th touch you'll incur a nasty bout of leprosy on the 2nd Tuesday following the conjunction of the full moon, Saturn and Jupiter, but only if you see a unicorn humping a dodo bird with a leprechaun watching on the 2nd Monday after she touched you.Kev07 said:i like to go with 7... it's a lucky number, if she touches you seven times, you better fvckclose her before it becomes 8 :rockon: