"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u..

drift king

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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u call her out on it?

im talking about the phase where u f'd up and now have to ignore her and just say hi unaffected by it.

it's so obvious what she's doing i feel calling her out on her immature bullsh1t may at least do something. they not usually used to confrontation, it would at least make them feel silly?

cos they know what they're doing but think they're so smart
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
 

drift king

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Energizer said:
I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
so i'd just pretend she doesn't exist as well?

it seems rather immature of me too and seems as if im affected by her behaviour that i pretend she doesn't exist
 
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No it doesn't, it shows you don't care about her.

She's ignoring you, you do the same, therefore you aren't wasting your valuable time.

Why try and keep in contact with someone who doesn't want to keep in contact with you?
 

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Just start coughing loudly when she walks by....mutter "Sorry, swine flu" and be off.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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