"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u..

drift king

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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u call her out on it?

im talking about the phase where u f'd up and now have to ignore her and just say hi unaffected by it.

it's so obvious what she's doing i feel calling her out on her immature bullsh1t may at least do something. they not usually used to confrontation, it would at least make them feel silly?

cos they know what they're doing but think they're so smart
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
 

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Energizer said:
I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
so i'd just pretend she doesn't exist as well?

it seems rather immature of me too and seems as if im affected by her behaviour that i pretend she doesn't exist
 
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No it doesn't, it shows you don't care about her.

She's ignoring you, you do the same, therefore you aren't wasting your valuable time.

Why try and keep in contact with someone who doesn't want to keep in contact with you?
 

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Just start coughing loudly when she walks by....mutter "Sorry, swine flu" and be off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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