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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u..

drift king

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if a girl who's ignoring u pretends to be on her phone everytime u pass by should u call her out on it?

im talking about the phase where u f'd up and now have to ignore her and just say hi unaffected by it.

it's so obvious what she's doing i feel calling her out on her immature bullsh1t may at least do something. they not usually used to confrontation, it would at least make them feel silly?

cos they know what they're doing but think they're so smart
 

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I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
 

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Energizer said:
I'd just ignore her.

It's her way of ignoring you and keeping you away.

Stay away and find someone who isn't as immature as that.
so i'd just pretend she doesn't exist as well?

it seems rather immature of me too and seems as if im affected by her behaviour that i pretend she doesn't exist
 
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No it doesn't, it shows you don't care about her.

She's ignoring you, you do the same, therefore you aren't wasting your valuable time.

Why try and keep in contact with someone who doesn't want to keep in contact with you?
 

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Just start coughing loudly when she walks by....mutter "Sorry, swine flu" and be off.
 

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