"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Poonani Maker said:
Well, I just checked. I've still got 26 hours. I'll briefly let you peek at one of her pics: http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc217/BlockadeRunner101/O8GMSEECDRHF.jpg
Cute. I say go ahead and make a move because it seems that she has some type of attraction to you. Personally, I say do what you typically do when interacting with women offline. The thing is that you'll need to get through her b1tch-shield first in order to get together with her offline. The distance thing will work against your ability to easily do something spontaneous. Well if you're up for the challenge, go for it; the clock is ticking.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker

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You know what? I think now is just not the time for to get involved with a youngun like this.

Then again, I'm confident strong in person, just that, I'll be thinking that she'll be looking for my porsche to pull up when I come to meet her, and instead see me madza b4000 pickup and be deflated.

The point is, I could care less about my ride. I'd rather have a nice house, which I plan on buying in a couple of months - been saving like a maddog for the down pmt.

So I should just save me and her the humiliation and time. My truck needs windshield repair. I just fixed the brake light. My oneitis knows the history of me and my truck. She hates it too, but a paid-off truck going on 4 years of no payments has been quite nice - and SHE don't understand that - that money does not grow on trees.

Life is hard, man, when you're out west and got no family - they're all back east, south. So basically, all I've had is ME and my local friends here, and my looks and determination, to get me the jobs I needed, to get me to where I am now. I'm happy with or without a woman, but in time, I think The woman will fall into place in my life.

Now is not the time to pursue this chick, however tempting she may be to me.
 
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