Here is something happened to me on the weekend. Hopefully it will make those who don't have enough confidence in themselves realize something.
On the weekend I called up a girl I know and asked her out on a dinner date. I told her that we would just meet at the restaurant and take our own cars (why should I pick her up? she has yet to even prove herself to me.). We meet there and the dinner went very well. I was sure to order exactly what I wanted. I stayed true to who I am and just ordered a beer (I thought that if she had a problem with that then I would of just nexted her.) I really didn't care if it was a fancy restaurant or not. I wanted beer an that was that.
Anyway, the dinner went very well and we both had a good time. After, I walked her to my new car and told her to sit down and try out the nice leather seats. We both sat in my car and spent hours talking and joking around. We even stayed in the parking lot well after the mall closed.
Now here is where I want to make my point.
This girl put her head on my shoulder, gave me a back massage, and shortly thereafter a BJ!. I did FA to get this out of her and I didn't even try to control the situation. The reason for this is simple. If a girl is worth anything and she likes you then you DON'T have to even try! But she won't like you if you are not a man and you are not true to who you are! Being a man is all about being true to yourself. Remember, you don't have to impress her at all! SHE is the one that has to impress you! A good girl will act on her emotions and will take pleasure out of making you feel like a king! That is just the honest truth about it.
so if you want a relationship with a girl then don't take **** from them. Remember if it evolves into anything it could very well be "Lucy in the sky with half a f**ken years salary"
The more you realize this the more successful you will be.
On the weekend I called up a girl I know and asked her out on a dinner date. I told her that we would just meet at the restaurant and take our own cars (why should I pick her up? she has yet to even prove herself to me.). We meet there and the dinner went very well. I was sure to order exactly what I wanted. I stayed true to who I am and just ordered a beer (I thought that if she had a problem with that then I would of just nexted her.) I really didn't care if it was a fancy restaurant or not. I wanted beer an that was that.
Anyway, the dinner went very well and we both had a good time. After, I walked her to my new car and told her to sit down and try out the nice leather seats. We both sat in my car and spent hours talking and joking around. We even stayed in the parking lot well after the mall closed.
Now here is where I want to make my point.
This girl put her head on my shoulder, gave me a back massage, and shortly thereafter a BJ!. I did FA to get this out of her and I didn't even try to control the situation. The reason for this is simple. If a girl is worth anything and she likes you then you DON'T have to even try! But she won't like you if you are not a man and you are not true to who you are! Being a man is all about being true to yourself. Remember, you don't have to impress her at all! SHE is the one that has to impress you! A good girl will act on her emotions and will take pleasure out of making you feel like a king! That is just the honest truth about it.
so if you want a relationship with a girl then don't take **** from them. Remember if it evolves into anything it could very well be "Lucy in the sky with half a f**ken years salary"
The more you realize this the more successful you will be.