Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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00Kevin

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Here is something happened to me on the weekend. Hopefully it will make those who don't have enough confidence in themselves realize something.

On the weekend I called up a girl I know and asked her out on a dinner date. I told her that we would just meet at the restaurant and take our own cars (why should I pick her up? she has yet to even prove herself to me.). We meet there and the dinner went very well. I was sure to order exactly what I wanted. I stayed true to who I am and just ordered a beer (I thought that if she had a problem with that then I would of just nexted her.) I really didn't care if it was a fancy restaurant or not. I wanted beer an that was that.

Anyway, the dinner went very well and we both had a good time. After, I walked her to my new car and told her to sit down and try out the nice leather seats. We both sat in my car and spent hours talking and joking around. We even stayed in the parking lot well after the mall closed.

Now here is where I want to make my point.

This girl put her head on my shoulder, gave me a back massage, and shortly thereafter a BJ!. I did FA to get this out of her and I didn't even try to control the situation. The reason for this is simple. If a girl is worth anything and she likes you then you DON'T have to even try! But she won't like you if you are not a man and you are not true to who you are! Being a man is all about being true to yourself. Remember, you don't have to impress her at all! SHE is the one that has to impress you! A good girl will act on her emotions and will take pleasure out of making you feel like a king! That is just the honest truth about it.

so if you want a relationship with a girl then don't take **** from them. Remember if it evolves into anything it could very well be "Lucy in the sky with half a f**ken years salary"

The more you realize this the more successful you will be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Note to self: Order beer with dinner. :D

Anyways, good for you you figured it out. Not all girls are like this but being your 'improved' self does wonders. You don't have to prove yourself to the girl.. You should prove yourselves to each other and you both did ;)
 

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Not all girls are as aggresive as this girl you went out with. Some take a little longer to come out of their shell... That is where a little bit of effort comes in.
 

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DJUofS

DJUofS I disagree, girls are horny like that. It takes a MAN to bring it out. OOKevin did a very good job at accepting his testosterone, showing that he is not desperate, and making her comfortable. This is why she gave him a BJ, good job OOKevin. :cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re: DJUofS

Originally posted by BRYCEicl
DJUofS I disagree, girls are horny like that. It takes a MAN to bring it out. OOKevin did a very good job at accepting his testosterone, showing that he is not desperate, and making her comfortable. This is why she gave him a BJ, good job OOKevin. :cool:
Exactly. Being a man means being the aggresor... being the one who gets her number and being the one who initially sets up the dates. He put the effort in by calling her and taking her out with him. She was a little bit easier to crack than some women. Either way, if you don't put any effort in, you won't get much out.
 

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did you guys kiss before the BJ? Or did she go straight to that? She just unzipped you or did you give a signal? Geez, you lucky dude.
 
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