I don't go out very often due to some other pathetic excuse (it's a new year's resolution to bump up to at least going to a bar or SOMEWHERE once a week). But sometimes, on nights that I've gone out, I'll be sitting/standing by the bar ordering a drink, and I'll make pretty long eye-contact with a girl a little ways away.
The problem is that these times it's been when some other guy is standing next to her talkin' to her and basically trying to pick her up (obviously not a boyfriend or anything, just someone trying to do their thing). So I'll check back once or twice and the eye-contact will still be on me, they'll smile, and then look back to the guy they're talking to.
Should I go over? If so, what do you do? If they were alone, I wouldn't be so worried, but it's a bit more comlicated with the third party there (specially since I'm obviously gonna have to interrupt)
Alexi
The problem is that these times it's been when some other guy is standing next to her talkin' to her and basically trying to pick her up (obviously not a boyfriend or anything, just someone trying to do their thing). So I'll check back once or twice and the eye-contact will still be on me, they'll smile, and then look back to the guy they're talking to.
Should I go over? If so, what do you do? If they were alone, I wouldn't be so worried, but it's a bit more comlicated with the third party there (specially since I'm obviously gonna have to interrupt)
Alexi
