“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If a girl is already talkin' with some guy . . .?

sfalexi

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I don't go out very often due to some other pathetic excuse (it's a new year's resolution to bump up to at least going to a bar or SOMEWHERE once a week). But sometimes, on nights that I've gone out, I'll be sitting/standing by the bar ordering a drink, and I'll make pretty long eye-contact with a girl a little ways away.

The problem is that these times it's been when some other guy is standing next to her talkin' to her and basically trying to pick her up (obviously not a boyfriend or anything, just someone trying to do their thing). So I'll check back once or twice and the eye-contact will still be on me, they'll smile, and then look back to the guy they're talking to.

Should I go over? If so, what do you do? If they were alone, I wouldn't be so worried, but it's a bit more comlicated with the third party there (specially since I'm obviously gonna have to interrupt)

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Introduce yourself, then ask her to buy you a drink.

Nearly any response she will have to this request will open up the c&f flood gates. If she agrees, tell her she better make it 2, and give her a smirk. If she is eyeing you from across the room, that is your invitation to approach.

NIKE up biatch.

about the other guy there, introduce yourself, if its not a bf ill bet you anything he will excuse himself and walk away.

on a side note, im making a hobby of trying to get girls to ditch whatever guys they are with and leave with me and my click, no success yet but the looks and reactions you get from the guys they are with is priceless (right now i think the no success is because the way i go about it is a little to ****y, bust on them a bit and then tell them to ditch these guys, they will have a better time with me). ive only tried twice, to much fun. Anyone have tips for this?
 
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So just interrupt and introduce myself?

I had this happen to ME once while I was talkin' to some girl. Two guys came up and interrupted me (but they knew her from high school so that was they're 'excuse' to interrupt). I just talked along with them until they left and she apologized for them.

about the other guy there, introduce yourself, if its not a bf ill bet you anything he will excuse himself and walk away.
I wonder what I would do in this situation (a guy interrupts me while I'm talkin' to a girl). I think it might be fun to lean on the bar and whisper into the girl's ear, "Watch this . . " and then make the guy as uncomfortable as possible by pretending to hit on him and stand very close to his face when talking to him. See if I can get him to freak out. I'd bet the faces/reactions I would get would be priceless!

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I'd just wait til he leaves then move in. I was at playing pool with my buddy a week ago and these two chicks were playin close to us, but this annoying guy kept going over and talking to them. What did I do? I waited until he wasn't there and invited them to play with us. They obliged. Don't let the **** ****block you. ****block the ****!
 
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