I usually can tell when a girl like me but I am not sure whether to be C+F, or should I compliment them? I find that when I compliment them they seem more into me in comparison to being C+F, and it goes against what I read here, I wanted to get a better idea guys.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If a girl is already attracted to you should I tease her or compliment her?
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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
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MacAvoy
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When a girl is really attracted to you, you should be fvcking her. However as for your question, go with your feelings. You'll be a lot better off in the long run if you make your own decisions based on your experience. IMO you already answered your own question.
Don't let the experience here live your life, its your life, you dictate how you want to live it. Practice makes perfect. Remember its fun to learn from our mistakes.
Don't let the experience here live your life, its your life, you dictate how you want to live it. Practice makes perfect. Remember its fun to learn from our mistakes.
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MacAvoy said:
Yeah that's true. I haven't really experienced it until the last few years when I started working out, and dressing nice. If a girl thinks you are hot, she will bang on the first date. You can even be AFC, and she will bang.
It's after the bang that needs work if you want to keep her around. Let's call it the big bang theory.
A bit of both. More C + F I'd say. If you are going to compliment her make sure you do it as a reward for good behaviour etc.nando said:
No matter how much you think she likes you don't fall into the AFC trap.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
mac said it best.
you have to make your own decisions and find out what works best for you. the advice on the board is only from our own experiences and what works for each of us individually. of course there is always a "rule of thumb" but dont base all your decisions on what is given to you in form of advice from everyone.
what I have found with ME personally, is that always complimenting a women/gf/etc. it tends to lose its value.
with anything you do not want to become complacent, you want to keep things fresh, new.
but of course, you have to do what makes you comfortable and works for you.
good luck brother
you have to make your own decisions and find out what works best for you. the advice on the board is only from our own experiences and what works for each of us individually. of course there is always a "rule of thumb" but dont base all your decisions on what is given to you in form of advice from everyone.
what I have found with ME personally, is that always complimenting a women/gf/etc. it tends to lose its value.
with anything you do not want to become complacent, you want to keep things fresh, new.
but of course, you have to do what makes you comfortable and works for you.
good luck brother
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
hmmm.... c/f or compliments? if u have been a girl and had u liked a boy, how would you react to the both? always remember one thing and of course, this is from my own personal experience, u need to keep her off balance at times, and u have to make ur move, if she pushes u away, u can either stick to her or move on. simple.
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****y and Funny, wow that term is so old school. We need to give it a new name.
Like the guys above say, "Do you".
Women love being showered with compliments (even though act like they don't) to maintain their ego. It gives them a buzz and when it wears off, they'll be seeking for more validation.
Like the guys above say, "Do you".
I say it's more important to just get in the sexual vibe! That's what I aim at... Because that's what I want!
I do whatever it takes to get in it and the rest flows naturally to...
What's your style? You plan to make her melt and then *SMOOCH*? Tease her way to the kiss? A little combination of both?
Your choice, really! Are you funny? C&F works well. Are you a smooth fella? You get the drill.
GL!
I do whatever it takes to get in it and the rest flows naturally to...
What's your style? You plan to make her melt and then *SMOOCH*? Tease her way to the kiss? A little combination of both?
Your choice, really! Are you funny? C&F works well. Are you a smooth fella? You get the drill.
GL!
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
Groovy hit it pretty hard on the head to. Once you know a chick is attracted to you that means you should be trying to "get in". Put her in the sexual mood too because she wants it just as much. When it becomes natural it all flows together.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.