"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If a girl holds prolonged eye contact several times?

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I was at the bookstore the other day and as i was getting up from my seat i noticed this very pretty girl looking at me. I was still thinking about what i just read so i really didnt expect this and normally would smile in a situation like that, but here i didnt. we just stared at each other for a few seconds and then i went and did what i was doing and didnt think much of it until it happened again, and i still didnt smile for whatever reason just kind of broke it after a few seconds. I wasnt intimidated by her or anything like that, i really dont know why i didnt smile or go introduce myself very unusual.

Kind of a weird situation since i never just look a woman in the eyes for more than a half a second without smiling. Does this indicate interest on her part? or did i blow it by not smiling and she was staring to stare? The reason i ask is because there is a high probability i will see her again as we both frequent this place and i am curious as to if i should approach her next time or if i ****ed myself by not doing so already or smiling?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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While I RARELY take advice from females, there are a FEW honest ones that tell it like it is. I have one trusted female friend that confirmed what I known about eye contact. She said, "We only look at guys we are attracted to."

If the eye contact if very quick, it could be accidental. But if a chick locks eyes with you for a couple seconds and/or does it more than once, odds are very high that she's attracted to you.

Did you blow it? For the most part yes. Girls are flakey. They can eye you up and down like a piece of meat one day and be totally unreceptive to you the next day. It is critical that you learn from this and "Strike when the iron is hot." You could have approached her and said ANYTHING really. Even hi might have worked.

You are welcome to try to talk to her next time. There is still a chance, but it's slim. Don't expect much. It's far more important to remember this going foward when you encounter other chicks look at you.
 
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