My Name is Nobody
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If a girl gives you her number in AIM chat and it's clear she is interested in you, should you call her right away or wait a day?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If a Girl gives you her number in AIM chat
- Thread starter My Name is Nobody
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
rsxtreme
Don Juan
because she gave her number it is certain there are some interest in you.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Call her when you want, and when you actually have stuff to talk about. I never follow a timer on when I should call a girl. I call her when I have plenty to say and feel like talking to her.
This prevents boring convos.
This prevents boring convos.
Krak
Don Juan
Don't call her right when she gives it to you over AIM, that's just retarded. Like Dannyrt34 said, call her when you are going to ask her out or have something to say. Otherwise you can just continue your convo over AIM.
TruthHurts
Don Juan
I got numbers of AIM, called them on the spot and asked em to come over... it works.. there is a difference when you met the person live and let their imagination fly, vs seeing text... talking on the phone, puts some of your text in context.... its like some of the people read my mental abuse stuff and totally got it wrong, but if i was to do an audio they would get a better understanding of it..
by the way.. im almost 29 yo
I was one of the FIRST and ORIGINAL people on AIM (had all the best names that you cant get today like, Lookn4love, HotBody4U etc etc ...
at that time, all cool screen names were for the taking. SexyGuy lol
this was a time where there were no pix.. you would literallly just describe yourself.. i was 15 yo then and i would get these absolutley models to hook up with.. unbeliveble...
Before AIM there was Sierra Online chat, you guys probably dont even know that, cause your too young to know
ohh u might warn her... like "im gonna call u right now" or "ring, ring, ring"
by the way.. im almost 29 yo
I was one of the FIRST and ORIGINAL people on AIM (had all the best names that you cant get today like, Lookn4love, HotBody4U etc etc ...
at that time, all cool screen names were for the taking. SexyGuy lol this was a time where there were no pix.. you would literallly just describe yourself.. i was 15 yo then
and i would get these absolutley models to hook up with.. unbeliveble... Before AIM there was Sierra Online chat, you guys probably dont even know that, cause your too young to know
ohh u might warn her... like "im gonna call u right now" or "ring, ring, ring"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.