"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a girl doesn't wanna have sex,won't call you,e-mail,date or even talk to you....

Tha Realnezz

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...It's cuz she doesn't like you.

I don't know why this "persistance" mentality is in play here.

Why bother with a chic that doesn't even pick up her phone or return calls?

If a chic digs you for real,for real..she will blow you or **** you if really want it and get down to it...

If she's just like you then she will at the very least pick up her ****ing phone,call you and come see you..

..Anything less than that at least...(not getting her to call you & see you) is rejection..

My way of playing it is:I call twice(if I can't setup the date on the spot)Two days after I get the number and another day after that.

If I can't get any love with a phonecall,e-mail,nothing or a ****ing movie,well she's gone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amen brother. Learning to Next is key. Even calling four times like you suggested is pushing it, imo.
 

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^wow,I can't call four times..lol...It's work to even call the first time.

You have to put yourself in that "fem" zone...lol...think of flakly,dumb **** to say to her.

Rather just ask her out on the spot:(Pause,smile at her and say)...you gotta man?..I wanna go out with you..:....:whistle: :rock:

That ends the games right there,but sometimes you're just not into it,you know...so i get the number...
 

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Correct. Thing people forget is that people change their minds. Just because she seemed to be into you when you met doesn't mean she is after you leave, let alone 2 days later when she's sobered up.

Everyone who's been interested in me has called back if not called first. Though sometimes gals who are at one time interested lose interest temporarily for external reasons (involved with someone else, etc.), and may hit it again with you if you catch up with them a good bit later... again, things change.
 
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