"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a girl doesn't wanna have sex,won't call you,e-mail,date or even talk to you....

Tha Realnezz

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...It's cuz she doesn't like you.

I don't know why this "persistance" mentality is in play here.

Why bother with a chic that doesn't even pick up her phone or return calls?

If a chic digs you for real,for real..she will blow you or **** you if really want it and get down to it...

If she's just like you then she will at the very least pick up her ****ing phone,call you and come see you..

..Anything less than that at least...(not getting her to call you & see you) is rejection..

My way of playing it is:I call twice(if I can't setup the date on the spot)Two days after I get the number and another day after that.

If I can't get any love with a phonecall,e-mail,nothing or a ****ing movie,well she's gone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amen brother. Learning to Next is key. Even calling four times like you suggested is pushing it, imo.
 

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^wow,I can't call four times..lol...It's work to even call the first time.

You have to put yourself in that "fem" zone...lol...think of flakly,dumb **** to say to her.

Rather just ask her out on the spot:(Pause,smile at her and say)...you gotta man?..I wanna go out with you..:....:whistle: :rock:

That ends the games right there,but sometimes you're just not into it,you know...so i get the number...
 

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Correct. Thing people forget is that people change their minds. Just because she seemed to be into you when you met doesn't mean she is after you leave, let alone 2 days later when she's sobered up.

Everyone who's been interested in me has called back if not called first. Though sometimes gals who are at one time interested lose interest temporarily for external reasons (involved with someone else, etc.), and may hit it again with you if you catch up with them a good bit later... again, things change.
 
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