"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if a girl doesnt give u what u want how do u tell them w/out saying anything

aix237

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If a girl is not giving you what you want how do you tell them you want something different without saying it? Is it ok to cut them off for a tiny bit and when they ask you why you were ignoring them or acting mad you tell them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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faiNt`

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You never want them to see you as acting "mad" or "ignoring them" because then they realize that you care. Indifference is key. Basically if you cut contact, it should be the same when you talk to them, like if you weren't cutting contact (high energy etc .. same attitude)

They will feel like they are missing out on something if they are interested in you at all, and should initiate something.
 

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First of all, never rely on a woman to give you what you want. If you maintain the mentality that you don't need anything from a woman because you get all your confidence and happiness from yourself and your friends, then you will never want anything BADLY from a woman.

Once you start showing want to a woman, she starts showing less give. A woman wants to give to someone who isn't really asking for it. She will keep doing things for someone who doesn't appreciate it, until he does appreciate it. And then she will shower in her joy that she has gotten HIM to appreciate her.

The trick is to only appreciate a woman every now and then, just to keep her in check.

I can't really think of anything I "need" a woman to do for me at the moment. If she doesn't want to give me brain, fine. I can find it elsewhere if I really want it. If she doesn't want to take out my trash, fine. I'll just end up finding another woman to do it.

By eating and breathing this mentality, ultimately a woman cannot resist your manliness. She knows that any second you could kick her to the curb and she LOVES it. She wants to be that trophy girl of yours, even if she knows that her worth to you isn't near as much as yours is to her.

Aren't we such *******s?
 
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