"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if a girl doesnt give u what u want how do u tell them w/out saying anything

aix237

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If a girl is not giving you what you want how do you tell them you want something different without saying it? Is it ok to cut them off for a tiny bit and when they ask you why you were ignoring them or acting mad you tell them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You never want them to see you as acting "mad" or "ignoring them" because then they realize that you care. Indifference is key. Basically if you cut contact, it should be the same when you talk to them, like if you weren't cutting contact (high energy etc .. same attitude)

They will feel like they are missing out on something if they are interested in you at all, and should initiate something.
 

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First of all, never rely on a woman to give you what you want. If you maintain the mentality that you don't need anything from a woman because you get all your confidence and happiness from yourself and your friends, then you will never want anything BADLY from a woman.

Once you start showing want to a woman, she starts showing less give. A woman wants to give to someone who isn't really asking for it. She will keep doing things for someone who doesn't appreciate it, until he does appreciate it. And then she will shower in her joy that she has gotten HIM to appreciate her.

The trick is to only appreciate a woman every now and then, just to keep her in check.

I can't really think of anything I "need" a woman to do for me at the moment. If she doesn't want to give me brain, fine. I can find it elsewhere if I really want it. If she doesn't want to take out my trash, fine. I'll just end up finding another woman to do it.

By eating and breathing this mentality, ultimately a woman cannot resist your manliness. She knows that any second you could kick her to the curb and she LOVES it. She wants to be that trophy girl of yours, even if she knows that her worth to you isn't near as much as yours is to her.

Aren't we such *******s?
 
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