Midnight Carnival
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Only works in English though.Soprano said:
Oh well, there are some variations to be found I guess.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If a girl asks "do you have a girlfriend?", what's the best answer?
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Oh well, there are some variations to be found I guess.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
HER: Do you have a girlfriend?
YOU: Some of them I consider girlfriends, some of them I just consider.
YOU: Some of them I consider girlfriends, some of them I just consider.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
just remembered,i was tipsy and used this about 2 years ago on someone I had been playing aorund with for a couple of weeks off and on
Her: "Do you have a GF?"
Me: "If I say yes, does it mean you won't have sex with me still?" (Smililng in a joking manner)
Her: (laughing)..lol, not really
Her: "Do you have a GF?"
Me: "If I say yes, does it mean you won't have sex with me still?" (Smililng in a joking manner)
Her: (laughing)..lol, not really
Tha Realnezz
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I always ask them if they're single first..too many housewives looking to flirt them make a scene about it when you ask them out..(****ing *****es I hate women that do that)...
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Honestly, I dont give a fvck either way. Thats why I tell it like it is when they come to me like that. I'm not their entertainment. Most cant offer anything more than pvssy anyway. As far as I'm concerned, I treat it like business. If we're not talkin about sex, then why are we talkin?Master Bates said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Blue Phoenix
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I have just been asked this question by a very attractive girl. I was kind of taken aback as she was so straight forward. I said "no...Actually there were some candidates but they were all crazy" lol. She asked "Why?" I said "I don´t know".
lol. I really wonder what´s the attraction ratio (% of interest level) when a girl asks this.
lol. I really wonder what´s the attraction ratio (% of interest level) when a girl asks this.
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Just a Shot Away
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Last time I was asked that I said "Define girlfriend." and it worked out. I'm pretty sure it raised her IL and maybe added some mystery to me, I dunno.
Blue Phoenix
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Are they into you or not? If not, why ask?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Why didn't I use this line?Lust said:
Of course the answer to this question should be a straight forward "No", no need to raise suspicions but that's very humorous and effective.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
Suspicion? Its not about adding suspicion, its about creating mystery and adding value.Dante420 said:
But hey, everyone's game and personality is different. I don't really see a problem with just a simple no if you're not a fan of C&F, but if it suits your style why not have a little fun?
nismo-4
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Nowadays, I use witticisms here.
Damn, this thread is over 2 years old! Back when I wrote this, I had no signature.
I learned that if you're getting asked that, she's interested to a degree.
Damn, this thread is over 2 years old! Back when I wrote this, I had no signature.
I learned that if you're getting asked that, she's interested to a degree.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
She says. "Do you have a girlfriend?"
You," Why, I have several applications on my desk ." ( Sly grin )
OR -
She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"
You, "Actually I have a couple - you want one ? "
OR-
She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"
You, " Do you ? Probably not- keep your hands off mine "
You," Why, I have several applications on my desk ." ( Sly grin )
OR -
She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"
You, "Actually I have a couple - you want one ? "
OR-
She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"
You, " Do you ? Probably not- keep your hands off mine "
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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@ jophil28 & @ donjuandicarlo
I love them witticisms!!! LOL!
I love them witticisms!!! LOL!
starfishandcoffee
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"why, you offering?"
Nexus Polaris
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I agree with the còcky and funny approach. I try to be as ambiguous about it as possible.
Like I had a girl ask me once, "You don't have like a crazy girlfriend or anything do you?"
And I responded with, "I don't have a crazy girlfriend."
Like I had a girl ask me once, "You don't have like a crazy girlfriend or anything do you?"
And I responded with, "I don't have a crazy girlfriend."
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.