"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If a girl asks "do you have a girlfriend?", what's the best answer?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HER: Do you have a girlfriend?

YOU: Some of them I consider girlfriends, some of them I just consider.
 
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just remembered,i was tipsy and used this about 2 years ago on someone I had been playing aorund with for a couple of weeks off and on

Her: "Do you have a GF?"

Me: "If I say yes, does it mean you won't have sex with me still?" (Smililng in a joking manner)

Her: (laughing)..lol, not really
 
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I always ask them if they're single first..too many housewives looking to flirt them make a scene about it when you ask them out..(****ing *****es I hate women that do that)...
 
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Master Bates said:
Do you really think that if a girl asks if you have a girlfriend, that automatically means she's already interested? I get asked that sometimes, and it's hard to tell if it's just conversation or if I should take it as a real sign of interest.
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Honestly, I dont give a fvck either way. Thats why I tell it like it is when they come to me like that. I'm not their entertainment. Most cant offer anything more than pvssy anyway. As far as I'm concerned, I treat it like business. If we're not talkin about sex, then why are we talkin?:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have just been asked this question by a very attractive girl. I was kind of taken aback as she was so straight forward. I said "no...Actually there were some candidates but they were all crazy" lol. She asked "Why?" I said "I don´t know".

lol. I really wonder what´s the attraction ratio (% of interest level) when a girl asks this.
 
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Last time I was asked that I said "Define girlfriend." and it worked out. I'm pretty sure it raised her IL and maybe added some mystery to me, I dunno.
 
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backbreaker said:
just remembered,i was tipsy and used this about 2 years ago on someone I had been playing aorund with for a couple of weeks off and on

Her: "Do you have a GF?"

Me: "If I say yes, does it mean you won't have sex with me still?" (Smililng in a joking manner)

Her: (laughing)..lol, not really
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Old post, but thats brilliant. Best one I've seen.

I used to just smile and say 'not exclusively', until I started saying yes...
 
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Are they into you or not? If not, why ask?
 
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"I don't have a girlfriend. I just know a girl who'd get really mad if she heard me say that..."

- Mitch Hedberg
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Brush it off with some ****y and Funny, try to have her guess and use her own imagination. Never give out the real answer right away, without making her jump through a few hoops first.

(I'm talking to a chick on a tuesday)
Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
Me: Only on tuesdays
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Why didn't I use this line?


Of course the answer to this question should be a straight forward "No", no need to raise suspicions but that's very humorous and effective.
 
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Dante420 said:
Of course the answer to this question should be a straight forward "No", no need to raise suspicions but that's very humorous and effective.
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Suspicion? Its not about adding suspicion, its about creating mystery and adding value.

But hey, everyone's game and personality is different. I don't really see a problem with just a simple no if you're not a fan of C&F, but if it suits your style why not have a little fun?
 
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Nowadays, I use witticisms here.

Damn, this thread is over 2 years old! Back when I wrote this, I had no signature.

I learned that if you're getting asked that, she's interested to a degree.
 
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She says. "Do you have a girlfriend?"

You," Why, I have several applications on my desk ." ( Sly grin )


OR -

She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"

You, "Actually I have a couple - you want one ? "


OR-

She," Do you have a girlfriend ?"

You, " Do you ? Probably not- keep your hands off mine "
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One of my exs asked me if i had a bf and i said no, so to be polite i asked if he had a gf... his answer was 'yes, but she doesnt know it yet' I thought it was funny, and have never forgot it.
 
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I agree with the còcky and funny approach. I try to be as ambiguous about it as possible.

Like I had a girl ask me once, "You don't have like a crazy girlfriend or anything do you?"

And I responded with, "I don't have a crazy girlfriend."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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