"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A girl I was gaming. No longer am. She really liked me a ton. I broke it off before it got too serious. Anyways. Her friends were like polar opposite of me. Real country. Loved redneck guys, muddin,etc. One of them would be blatantly disrespectful and a few others would be cold. My friend's girlfriends typically really like me. Only redneck thing about me is I like to fish. Anyways...I was scoping her fb out of boredom and see alota her friends are like in love with her new boyfriend. posting comments on his pics,etc because he is a redneck. Kinda confirms to me that we werent a good match. Kinda aggravating at the same time I'll admit. However. I'm curious as to how to deal with this in the future? If your gaming one of the hotter chicks in her social circle and her friends cant be jealous about you and her. Doesnt that take alota the sting outta my game?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ya. That's what I figured. I think women may actually be worse in this regard than men. I've dated some super hot girls that were fun to have my friends be jealous. I've also dated some plain looking girls. That are just avg in looks. My friends would just say. "Ya...she's alright" but I could really care less. As she had alota other good qualities. Where as I'm thinking a woman wants her friends to wanna f him. As jealousy is by far a more feminine characteristic.
 

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A guy will generally need approval from her girl friends in order to date a chick without them causing problems for him. On the other hand his buddies aren't going to stop him from dating whatever chick he wishes to.

(Of course if she's a ***** then they're not going to want you bring her around, but unlike the chicks they're not going to try and break you up.)
 

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A woman's friends are the worst. They definitely go with the pack, and want who everyone else in the group wants. I've experienced both sides. Either they all wanted me, or none of them did. Even if some of them originally were interested - they changed their minds almost instantly, once they "discussed" things with their dumb friends - until they realized that other women wanted me. Then, it was back on again. Same goes for co-workers. This happened to me countless times.

Quite retarded, they are. No minds of their own; going with whatever is cool, and whoever they all agree is "hot". It's like a damn herd. They are always asking for their friends' opinions on this garbage, and chasing after who everyone else wants.

They always discuss these things with their friends. Always. If you casually tell one of their friends that you asked her friend out in a fly-by conversation - they'll say, "yeah, she told me". And if that friend you're talking to doesn't like you - neither does she. This was discussed; you were viewed as not good enough; blah blah. Until that friend likes you because other women do - now that original person likes you. I **** you not. They actually do this. They want acceptance, and the coolest / hottest guy around - as per everyone else's opinion.

Another thing you gotta watch for is sabotaging and **** blocking. They're always competing with each other, and want the best relationship out of everyone in the group. If they're not happy and/or single and lonely - they don't want their friends to be happy and dating, and not focusing all their attention on them. They want everyone else to be single and unhappy, so they don't feel lesser than them. Experienced this before, too. Overheard a lot of **** that was fed into their minds - as the friends acted nonchalant about the whole thing - as if they were just giving friendly advice that was in their best interests (Ha ha... No).

Their friends opinions are always sought after, taken into consideration, and followed - especially if the girl in question is a follower. Most of them are, and want to "fit in".

Then you have the guy friends, which are the worst. But I don't need to get into that.

This is mostly the status *****s, though. A lot of hot / young / popular / superficial girls fit this bill. The decent ones don't care too much about this stuff, and don't have retarded friends who look down on those who aren't one of them. But, remember: you are the company you keep. She would have probably followed the pack eventually.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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floydb25 said:
A woman's friends are the worst. They definitely go with the pack, and want who everyone else in the group wants. I've experienced both sides. Either they all wanted me, or none of them did. Even if some of them originally were interested - they changed their minds almost instantly, once they "discussed" things with their dumb friends - until they realized that other women wanted me. Then, it was back on again. Same goes for co-workers. This happened to me countless times.

Quite retarded, they are. No minds of their own; going with whatever is cool, and whoever they all agree is "hot". It's like a damn herd. They are always asking for their friends' opinions on this garbage, and chasing after who everyone else wants.

They always discuss these things with their friends. Always. If you casually tell one of their friends that you asked her friend out in a fly-by conversation - they'll say, "yeah, she told me". And if that friend you're talking to doesn't like you - neither does she. This was discussed; you were viewed as not good enough; blah blah. Until that friend likes you because other women do - now that original person likes you. I **** you not. They actually do this. They want acceptance, and the coolest / hottest guy around - as per everyone else's opinion.

Another thing you gotta watch for is sabotaging and **** blocking. They're always competing with each other, and want the best relationship out of everyone in the group. If they're not happy and/or single and lonely - they don't want their friends to be happy and dating, and not focusing all their attention on them. They want everyone else to be single and unhappy, so they don't feel lesser than them. Experienced this before, too. Overheard a lot of **** that was fed into their minds - as the friends acted nonchalant about the whole thing - as if they were just giving friendly advice that was in their best interests (Ha ha... No).

Their friends opinions are always sought after, taken into consideration, and followed - especially if the girl in question is a follower. Most of them are, and want to "fit in".

Then you have the guy friends, which are the worst. But I don't need to get into that.

This is mostly the status *****s, though. A lot of hot / young / popular / superficial girls fit this bill. The decent ones don't care too much about this stuff, and don't have retarded friends who look down on those who aren't one of them. But, remember: you are the company you keep. She would have probably followed the pack eventually.

^^^This ENTIRE post. 100%.

This part especially:

Quite retarded, they are. No minds of their own; going with whatever is cool, and whoever they all agree is "hot". It's like a damn herd. They are always asking for their friends' opinions on this garbage, and chasing after who everyone else wants.

It's funny because it's so pathetically true. When girls act like that which MOST do. You have to look at them like children and be non-chalant about their nonsense. Laugh it off and keep it moving. They are easily brainwashed by their surroundings. Friends, T.V. gossip mags etc. Easily.
 

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If her friends don't like you, they try to sabotage your relationship.

If her friends do like you, they try to sabotage your relationship.
 

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bigneil said:
If her friends don't like you, they try to sabotage your relationship.

If her friends do like you, they try to sabotage your relationship.
Heh. So true. My ex girl's friends didn't like me. They thought I was controlling her or some **** since she never wanted to go to the bars or clubbing with them anymore (and honestly, I didn't care if she went, I trusted her enough). My ex used to tell me how they'd talk about me behind my back and one of them even deleted me from facebook while we were dating (attempt to stir drama, I guess?). I didn't really care though.

Since we broke up almost half a year ago, I've had even more of them remove me. Lol.
 

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"Then you have the guy friends, which are the worst. But I don't need to get into that."

Just wanted to let you know that you got this part right, too, floydb25.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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