"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If a chick you casually fvck lets you go bareback

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It's too easy in new york, even for afc's can get it without any effort. I'm not surprised.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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use protection!! always always try to use.
not only should you be worried about children, but you also don't know a woman's past. who knows who she's slept with. women always lie about this kind of shti so you gotta watch out.

i just found out today that one of my girlfriends last year has slept with over 60 guys. that's ***** status. and i bare backed her during those two months we were together nearly 90% of the time. i'm fkcuin scared i have some ****.

and about 2 months ago we hooked up, i didn't use protection, and she gave me gonorrhea. i'm ok now. but i should've known better. ah. but you'll learn from your mistakes. we all do.

but the bottom line is... use use use always use protection. who cares if it feels bad. if you can't get hard enough, **** it just give up. you know what they say, "you're better safe than sorry".
 

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18 minutes of pleasure is not worth 18 years of child support payments to a woman you don't want to be with.
 

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EA Gold said:
It's too easy in new york, even for afc's can get it without any effort. I'm not surprised.
Excuses are excuses. After middle school and maybe a little bit in high school the AFC's get burned out in NYC as well.
 

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i don't know why but guys seems to consider that it's not a ddanger to **** a girl without condom, they only think the danger can come from them. I don't get it. are you dumb? if this chicks never wear condom, then you risk getting the std's of every guys she has slept with, knowing that those guys are not to strict about condoms either since they ****ed her bareback. Thus it means that they can have the std's of everygirl they ****ed etc etc.

a girl that let you **** her without condom= soooo much chance to get a std.

unless youre like in a commied relation ship and got tested blabla OR atleast if you had to convince her to not use condom^^
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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To answer your question, her letting you go raw doesn't mean anything. For some women, it can mean she considers you a serious LTR partner, but for a casual sex partner it doesn't mean much. The reason I say that is that it is scary just how easy it is to go raw if you really wanted to. A lot of women are just purely driven by their emotions and instinct and in the heat of the moment they just don't care.

Plus the risk of getting knocked up secretly turns them on in ways we can't even comprehend. (Even on the pill, the whole point is that she can pretend she's getting knocked up for that extra thrill, but women won't tell you that.)

My last two ONS didn't even mention a condom. I use them EVERY time without exception. While they didn't protest, I could see the slight look of disappointment in their eyes as I unwrapped the condom. They would have so let me go raw, but I wasn't going there.

Am I curious about what raw is like? Hell yeah, but I'm not going to risk trying
 

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Mike32ct said:
To answer your question, her letting you go raw doesn't mean anything. For some women, it can mean she considers you a serious LTR partner, but for a casual sex partner it doesn't mean much. The reason I say that is that it is scary just how easy it is to go raw if you really wanted to. A lot of women are just purely driven by their emotions and instinct and in the heat of the moment they just don't care.

Plus the risk of getting knocked up secretly turns them on in ways we can't even comprehend. (Even on the pill, the whole point is that she can pretend she's getting knocked up for that extra thrill, but women won't tell you that.)

My last two ONS didn't even mention a condom. I use them EVERY time without exception. While they didn't protest, I could see the slight look of disappointment in their eyes as I unwrapped the condom. They would have so let me go raw, but I wasn't going there.

Am I curious about what raw is like? Hell yeah, but I'm not going to risk trying

you never tried without condom? you never had a gf?
well for me it doesnt make much difference but for the guy it's a whole other thingn you'd probably finish prematurely ^^
 

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BBbardot said:
you never tried without condom? you never had a gf?
well for me it doesnt make much difference but for the guy it's a whole other thingn you'd probably finish prematurely ^^
I've never tried it without. I haven't had a serious gf, only ONS' and a couple short term relationships or FBs. I agree about the premature thing.
 

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I've never tried it without. I haven't had a serious gf, only ONS' and a couple short term relationships or FBs. I agree about the premature thing.
well, it's never too late i guess. Crossing fingers for you.
( consider yourself half a virgin cause bareback is really something apparently)

wait wait, you're 35 and condom have really became generally used not so long ago... You must have lost your virginity pretty late no?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BBbardot said:
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well, it's never too late i guess. Crossing fingers for you.
( consider yourself half a virgin cause bareback is really something apparently)

wait wait, you're 35 and condom have really became generally used not so long ago... You must have lost your virginity pretty late no?
Yes at 28.
 

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Original Poster, you're a moron.

AIDS, HIV, STDs, kids, child support. Need I say more? The stupidity of some people just amazes me.
 

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I hope you at least asked if she was on the Pill before you put it in.

I'm not as naturally paranoid as some of these guys. I've never met a girl who lied about being on the Pill.

If you're really unsure, ask to see the pills she's taking. Or just pull out each time (more fun like that anyway).
 

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it's all about risk/reward.

The more you risk, the better the reward (cvm deep inside her for the best pleasure ever, but get ready for the CHANCE of messing your whole life up).

There really is no good advice for this, because we don't know how much you're addicted to the rush of insanely good sex (and it's a good thing to be addicted to sex, but some guys NEED it to be without a condom no matter what - those are the risk takers who both enjoy sex more than anyone else, but also set themselves up for HUGE trouble every time they do it).

Best overall option is, make sure a girl takes birth control every day, make sure to see that she's clean (ask to view her test results), make sure she would DEFINITELY GET AN ABORTION in case an accident happened..........and hey, then feel free to cvm really deep inside the b1tch
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Leporello said:
I'm not as naturally paranoid as some of these guys. I've never met a girl who lied about being on the Pill.
I am happy for you. But it only takes one to ruin your whole life.
 

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**** yeah, don't want no kids that would totally ruin your life and free time, and take your money, chicks are ruthless when it comes to that ****.

And if you don't want kids, get a vasectomy, everything is still normal, and I don't regret mine one bit. Sure theres condoms, but their not always 100% effective.
 

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Borknagar said:
Sure theres condoms, but their not always 100% effective.

My current girlfriend once got knocked up while on the pill and while the guy also used a condom, which didn't even break. She later miscarried, but the pregnancy did happen. Her birth control is different now, the nuva ring, but I have never used a condom for the past three years of a lot of sex and all is well. I never have in any of my relationships. Ever since I snuck my high school girlfriend into the free clinic to get birth control, I have almost always been in relationships with a girl who's on birth control, maybe because I hate condoms. Obviously, I still used them the few times I've had sex with women I barely know, but condom-free sex is the biggest benefit of monogamy...which generally sucks, by the way, but at least I don't have to use a condom.
 

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Unless both of you get tested and are in a LTR and you know for a FACT she's on the pill, wrap it up man...
Its all fun and games until somebody lies about being on the pill and you end up paying child support for 18 years.
I absolutely HATE condoms and how they feel, but unfortunately they are necessary with the abundance of STDs and crazy lying btches.
 

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Dude, speaking as a guy whose good friend got diagnosed with HIV last year please keep the bareback ****ing for a serious relationship where you can trust her. You don't want that **** to happen. You really don't. I know you just want a simple answer to your question and you already heard it in this topic but if you slip up and that **** happens it is not going to be good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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