You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Only difference is just 5 decades ago there was a trade off or perks to this which kind of softened the blow. Man was King of his castle without the threat of the state and the emotional whims of an unhaaaapy wife hanging over his head, not a "man cave" in sight, a smiling, nurturing wife and his genetic continuation were waiting for his arrival, the lefties had not yet destroyed his work environment or any and all male spaces etc etc. All that's gone but he's still expected to hold his part of the bargain. Obviously some of us more "misogynist" types demand and took back the bonuses we once had but you get my point. For the sea of expendable taxpaying betas left over they seem to be sh!t out of luck.Tictac said:We are 'just' men.
And have always been disposable.
Probably more qualified than the Socialist in Chief.Bokanovsky said:Why is Michelle Obama delivering the presidential address?