"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Idiotic Mixed Signals

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I was at a high school club and while I helped out today I got some signals from the girl I'm attracting. I'm sure the mixed signals I'm getting is BS:

She accidentally bumps into me at the club

She flirts with other guys in front of me...let's see... she basically ignores me in front of her and also asks for a ride on this guy's back in front of me..This is the last time I'm going to get BS so give out ur opinions

Ok...this is getting annoying...either she is a girl who wants attention, gives out BS, is testing me, or more BS
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The silly girl just wants your attention. Don't give it to her.
 

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LOL..everytime I see or hear silly..it reminds me of the trix commerical..anyways, you mean she just wants attention or actually wants me?
 

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She just wants your attention so she can masturbate her ego. Don't give her your attention, it's the only power you have over her.
 

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She just wants your attention so she can masturbate her ego.
Wow! This analogy was perfect. I'll always remember this when I see girls like that!

That's true!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bah I'm sure girls always try to make you jealous with their bs all the time ehh?
 

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Also the funny thing is that I got her AIM and she shows a hell lot of body language in class, but im not sure why tests occur :rolleyes:
 
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