"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was at a high school club and while I helped out today I got some signals from the girl I'm attracting. I'm sure the mixed signals I'm getting is BS:

She accidentally bumps into me at the club

She flirts with other guys in front of me...let's see... she basically ignores me in front of her and also asks for a ride on this guy's back in front of me..This is the last time I'm going to get BS so give out ur opinions

Ok...this is getting annoying...either she is a girl who wants attention, gives out BS, is testing me, or more BS
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The silly girl just wants your attention. Don't give it to her.
 
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LOL..everytime I see or hear silly..it reminds me of the trix commerical..anyways, you mean she just wants attention or actually wants me?
 
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She just wants your attention so she can masturbate her ego. Don't give her your attention, it's the only power you have over her.
 
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She just wants your attention so she can masturbate her ego.
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Wow! This analogy was perfect. I'll always remember this when I see girls like that!

That's true!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bah I'm sure girls always try to make you jealous with their bs all the time ehh?
 
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Also the funny thing is that I got her AIM and she shows a hell lot of body language in class, but im not sure why tests occur :rolleyes:
 
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