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The Pressure Causing Archetypes
I have observed several archetypes which summarize the behavior of pressure causing men. The following archetypes can typically be found in social settings, especially in bars and night clubs. It is likely that all of us have exhibited all of the archetype behavior to different degrees at one time or another. Familiarize yourself with these negative behavior patterns and begin to remove them from your identity.
The Spider: Men who exhibit spider behavior tend to hang around the perimeter, and near the doorways of social settings. They are passive stalkers, who have a very simple approach: wait for a woman to pass by and then spring into position and launch the attack. Their efforts are to ensnare, cocoon, or trap women into listening to their pitch:
“Hey baby, who are you here with?”
“Can I buy you a drink?”
“Would you like to see the inside of my cocoon?”
“NO THANKS”
Threatening surprise attacks always create negative pressure, and set up an immediate predator/victim dynamic. Women have an inherent fear of spiders and any man behaving like one.
The Snake: Snake men are slippery, sleazy characters who slither around social venues in search of a victim. They offer a drink with one hand while attempting to coil the woman with the other. They usually initiate physical contact before it is welcomed.
He may initially be perceived as charming or smooth, but his dual motives will usually be revealed, and ultimately create pressure. His mouth says one thing, but his eyes communicate something much sleazier. Although his touch may be soft and welcoming, behind it is a hungry serpent. His duality is symbolized by the split tongue of the snake. He is never out to just have fun and meet some new friends. He always has a hidden agenda. Women are highly intuitive and will usually discover they are in the company of a snake.
The Hyena: Hyena men act exactly as hyenas do in nature. The hyena’s sole mission in life is to steal the lions kill. Men of this nature will never try to attract a woman of their own. They wait and watch for another man to have some success, and then they move in for the kill.
Whether this behavior is a result of laziness, or a desire to steal another man’s find, this approach always creates pressure. Of the dozens of times I have seen this method used, I have never once seen even a small degree of success. Unlike in the animal kingdom, the prey is still alive, and therefore can judge the situation. If one man declares himself through his actions to be the hyena, then the other man must be the lion.
The Vulture: Vultures are pure scavengers who feed on dead and weakened pray. They clean up what the hyenas leave behind. Vulture behavior is characterized by circular movement throughout the venue. Vulture men will circle until they find a weakened prey: a drunk, ovulating woman for example. As other vultures pick up on the scent, they will also land until the full congregation is in attendance. It is not uncommon to see several vulture men all pecking at the same vulnerable woman. Vultures are usually in full swing around closing time at a night club.
The Used Car Salesman: Unlike the other archetypes, the used car salesman is not rooted in predatory animal behavior. His approach is an attack none the less, with his assault directed at the ear.
He starts talking, and he never shuts up. He is Pac Man in the ear, and he feels he needs to talk to appear attractive. Blah blah blah until his target finds a way to escape him. He never gives his target a moments rest to respond and react to him.
The primary reason for this is he does not want allow any space for rejection. He thinks he can wear his target down with words, unwelcome words, until she finally surrenders and say’s, “Okay, I’ll take it.” This of course never happens, so he moves on to the next victim.
These are just a few of the archetypes I have identified. Please list any other types you have observed, as well as an explanation of their behavior.
I have observed several archetypes which summarize the behavior of pressure causing men. The following archetypes can typically be found in social settings, especially in bars and night clubs. It is likely that all of us have exhibited all of the archetype behavior to different degrees at one time or another. Familiarize yourself with these negative behavior patterns and begin to remove them from your identity.
The Spider: Men who exhibit spider behavior tend to hang around the perimeter, and near the doorways of social settings. They are passive stalkers, who have a very simple approach: wait for a woman to pass by and then spring into position and launch the attack. Their efforts are to ensnare, cocoon, or trap women into listening to their pitch:
“Hey baby, who are you here with?”
“Can I buy you a drink?”
“Would you like to see the inside of my cocoon?”
“NO THANKS”
Threatening surprise attacks always create negative pressure, and set up an immediate predator/victim dynamic. Women have an inherent fear of spiders and any man behaving like one.
The Snake: Snake men are slippery, sleazy characters who slither around social venues in search of a victim. They offer a drink with one hand while attempting to coil the woman with the other. They usually initiate physical contact before it is welcomed.
He may initially be perceived as charming or smooth, but his dual motives will usually be revealed, and ultimately create pressure. His mouth says one thing, but his eyes communicate something much sleazier. Although his touch may be soft and welcoming, behind it is a hungry serpent. His duality is symbolized by the split tongue of the snake. He is never out to just have fun and meet some new friends. He always has a hidden agenda. Women are highly intuitive and will usually discover they are in the company of a snake.
The Hyena: Hyena men act exactly as hyenas do in nature. The hyena’s sole mission in life is to steal the lions kill. Men of this nature will never try to attract a woman of their own. They wait and watch for another man to have some success, and then they move in for the kill.
Whether this behavior is a result of laziness, or a desire to steal another man’s find, this approach always creates pressure. Of the dozens of times I have seen this method used, I have never once seen even a small degree of success. Unlike in the animal kingdom, the prey is still alive, and therefore can judge the situation. If one man declares himself through his actions to be the hyena, then the other man must be the lion.
The Vulture: Vultures are pure scavengers who feed on dead and weakened pray. They clean up what the hyenas leave behind. Vulture behavior is characterized by circular movement throughout the venue. Vulture men will circle until they find a weakened prey: a drunk, ovulating woman for example. As other vultures pick up on the scent, they will also land until the full congregation is in attendance. It is not uncommon to see several vulture men all pecking at the same vulnerable woman. Vultures are usually in full swing around closing time at a night club.
The Used Car Salesman: Unlike the other archetypes, the used car salesman is not rooted in predatory animal behavior. His approach is an attack none the less, with his assault directed at the ear.
He starts talking, and he never shuts up. He is Pac Man in the ear, and he feels he needs to talk to appear attractive. Blah blah blah until his target finds a way to escape him. He never gives his target a moments rest to respond and react to him.
The primary reason for this is he does not want allow any space for rejection. He thinks he can wear his target down with words, unwelcome words, until she finally surrenders and say’s, “Okay, I’ll take it.” This of course never happens, so he moves on to the next victim.
These are just a few of the archetypes I have identified. Please list any other types you have observed, as well as an explanation of their behavior.
