"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LegendBoy

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Final year of school and my mate goes to another school and there is this chick from there I would not mind boning he is going to see if she has MSN and get it for me.

If so how the **** do you talk to someone you don't know? Stalking it would seem like.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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This wouldn't be the way anyone would advise you to take in meeting this girl.But if you're so keen on meeting her through msn you could add her and say like "Hi x (another girls name not hers)" , she will be like "Im not x,i'm y" and you can take it from there,most probably she will sense you're bsing her but i don't see any way other than adding her and going "Im x and Y got your msn for me" which is the truth but does not build any kind of attraction whatsoever.
 

LegendBoy

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haha. well i was thinking she will obviously will want to see what i look like. If she likes the picture i send then i would say i am in with a shot. By the way the schools are next door to each other but i probably see her every 6months. Also what you said about bull****ting a name is good because then it would make think "Who is this'? Creating soem interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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