"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LegendBoy

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Final year of school and my mate goes to another school and there is this chick from there I would not mind boning he is going to see if she has MSN and get it for me.

If so how the **** do you talk to someone you don't know? Stalking it would seem like.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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This wouldn't be the way anyone would advise you to take in meeting this girl.But if you're so keen on meeting her through msn you could add her and say like "Hi x (another girls name not hers)" , she will be like "Im not x,i'm y" and you can take it from there,most probably she will sense you're bsing her but i don't see any way other than adding her and going "Im x and Y got your msn for me" which is the truth but does not build any kind of attraction whatsoever.
 

LegendBoy

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haha. well i was thinking she will obviously will want to see what i look like. If she likes the picture i send then i would say i am in with a shot. By the way the schools are next door to each other but i probably see her every 6months. Also what you said about bull****ting a name is good because then it would make think "Who is this'? Creating soem interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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