"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ideas for furnishing/decorating bachelor pad or apartment

Building_and_Loan

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Anyone have a cool gadget, appliance, or piece of furniture that makes your place unique? I'm trying to look for ways to spruce up my place and I got a leaning bookcase and new shoe rack, but I feel like my place is still missing something.

I need a new couch sometime soon and am thinking about replacing it with a daybed. They look comfortable and may stand out with the ladies as well.

Ultimately, I just don't have a mind for decorating, so I wanted to see what other single guys have that helps make their place stand out in other people's minds.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Ambient lighting system, surround sound speakers, wrap around sofa etc. Just some ideas off the top of my head.
 

WanderingMan

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I'm a big fan of house plants. I'll see guy's places, and that's the one thing that could add the final touch. Not too many, but placed in a few spots adds to the ambiance, as well as the supposed fresh air production.

Also, if you're going with the bachelor pad feel, make sure you have a few strategically placed candles - coffee table, night stand, etc. They're great for setting the mood, as well as the perfect lighting for when you finally get down to business - they'll show enough.... but not too much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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