"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ideal Woman's Body

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I ran across this article, they asked designers from 18 countries to photoshop a picture in order to depict the ideal standard of beauty from their country. 14 of the 18 designers were women, so you know there may be problems right there. Still, I wondered what my fellow SoSuavers would think.

I'm from the US, but I think the US version looks a little "hippy". If I had to pick one, I kind of like Argentina.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-the-ideal-womans-body-looks-like-in-18-countries_55ccd2a6e4b064d5910ac3b0?cps=gravity_5059_-8202180861796421997&kvcommref=mostpopular
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some fat chicks in there, wow.

I'll take italy. Argentina and US and basically most of the thin ones are all decent though.
 

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What the **** was that?
 

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Those are all average bodies, none of them look like they have ever tied their shoes for a jog.
 

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MidnightCity said:
i'll take none of the above. something tells me those designers were complete afcs ashamed of their masculinity like the beta boys they were trained to be.
14 of the 18 designers were female.

Skyline said:
Those are all average bodies, none of them look like they have ever tied their shoes for a jog.
All of those pictures are of one person. It's all one picture, just different photoshopped versions.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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Most of them are fat, skinny fat exactly with more fat than skin.

No surprise they were built as model from other women, the only decent one is the italian one probably cause the designer was one of the few men in there.
 

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t!ts and ass are fat, and a woman feels like a bag of bones without them, but it's all in proportions. Chest to waist ratio is how both genders gauge attractiveness of the other.

The must not have photoshop in Columbia. Their pic looks the same as the original.

You can tell it was women doing it, because no one made her t!ts bigger.
 

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yannick43 said:
These are real women from the site POF, i am no longer sending emails or anything not even a member of online anymore but i can style check the site for some pics:
Plenty of Fish, lol. With their new rules, I don't think I'd even be allowed to contact a woman under 87 on there, lol. Why would I go to that site when when I can talk to girls in their 20s in real life?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Egypt all ****in day...
 

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Egypt is nice. Love hips and booty (but not to the point of being fat)
 

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Lol I would bang but they all look like the same chick
 

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As I've revealed before, I have a black chick fetish lol. I just think Hoopz is the sexiest woman I have EVER SEEN in my life. Second to Hoopz would be Meagan Good.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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