“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ideal Height?

djokovic77

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What do you think is the best overall height for a man to pickup women (and in general). In terms of being the most attractive, tall but not too tall etc. Obviously there are good and bad looking guys whether they are 5'6 or 6'5.

But if you could pick your own height, what would it be?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mike32ct

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I don't know if there is an IDEAL height, but 6'2" sounds optimum.

I'm 5'10"+, just under 5'11" which is OK, but I know plenty of women consider 6 foot plus to be some sort of magic code that opens their combination lock lol.
 

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I'm 6'0" and think 6'1" is perfect based on my roommate. Have a friend who's 6'3" and everyone considers him ridiculously tall so I'd say 5'11" to 6'2"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quarterbacks are 6'5".

But I think 6'1" or 6'2" is considered the ideal.
 

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I'm 6'3, 6'4 with my polo boots on.

Wish I was 6'5. I'd be in the NBA with them 2 inches.
 

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I'm 6'0 exactly barefoot (well 183 cm which is like 1/16 of an inch over) and find myself wishing I were 6'1 or 6'2. Lots of guys at my college who are around that height. Of course this doesn't make them especially appealing if their faces are busted or are out of shape (the vast majority are LOL)

But I feel like if you have a good package, then being a great height can really boost you. I'd love to be 6'2.
 

Just a Shot Away

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6'2 is solid. Anything under 6'0 is sketchy. Although, if your game is solid enough it doesn't really matter. I've seen 5'4 and under dudes pull bombshells that absolutely tower over them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chickfight

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I'm 6ft2 and handsome. Got me a couple girls sole based on that before I developed any game. Once you reach a certain level though, these things become less and less important. Confidence transcends everything.

6ft2 handsome guy with decent game vs a 5ft5 average looking guy with godly game. The latter will win out.
 

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I'm dead on 6ft but I'm a 21 yr old vrigin

I have a really short friend about under 5 ft, I could beat the guy up with both hands tied behind my back.

He has a really hot girlfriend and can get any other girl he wants within seconds and she lets him - I don't know how he does it.

So I don't think height is the be all and end all.
 

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Eternal_water said:
I'm dead on 6ft but I'm a 21 yr old vrigin

I have a really short friend about under 5 ft, I could beat the guy up with both hands tied behind my back.

He has a really hot girlfriend and can get any other girl he wants within seconds and she lets him - I don't know how he does it.

So I don't think height is the be all and end all.

Confidence thats why. Confidence will get the ugliest scrubs dimepieces. I have seen it all the time!
 

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Lol @ people making a big deal of height to get girls. First of all, physical appearance is not that important (as long as you meet a minimum standard, which is pretty low, e.g. not be deformed). Every PUA knows this.

Second of all, even WITHIN the realm of physical appearance, height is not that important. Again, as long as you meet a minimum standard (and I'd say that standard is being taller than the girl), face >>> body (muscle/tone) >>> height.

But people LOVE to nitpick about height, simply because it's something so easily quantifiable.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chickfight said:
I'm 6ft2 and handsome. Got me a couple girls sole based on that before I developed any game. Once you reach a certain level though, these things become less and less important. Confidence transcends everything.

6ft2 handsome guy with decent game vs a 5ft5 average looking guy with godly game. The latter will win out.
Correct sir. My two younger brothers are both taller than me (6'3 and 6'1),
I'm 5'10". The 6'1" married young at 22 to his high school sweetheart, while the 6'3" obsesses over body image and penis size insecurities.

Sure, they get more attention than I do because of their height, but they never take full of advantage of it so really it means nothing. Both of them are lazy when it comes to women and their results reflect their lack of game.
 

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i'm a somewhere between 5'9 and 5'10. id love to be 6'1
 

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average height. maybe an inch more? 5'9 or 5'-10 at the most. I never really felt a need or want to be tall.
 

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I am 5 feet 9 inches, and i too wish i was 6 feet...

But since i cannot do anything about it, why cry about it?

(I must admit it has, and sometimes still are, a huge issue for me) :
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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