Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ideal Height?

djokovic77

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What do you think is the best overall height for a man to pickup women (and in general). In terms of being the most attractive, tall but not too tall etc. Obviously there are good and bad looking guys whether they are 5'6 or 6'5.

But if you could pick your own height, what would it be?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct

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I don't know if there is an IDEAL height, but 6'2" sounds optimum.

I'm 5'10"+, just under 5'11" which is OK, but I know plenty of women consider 6 foot plus to be some sort of magic code that opens their combination lock lol.
 

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I'm 6'0" and think 6'1" is perfect based on my roommate. Have a friend who's 6'3" and everyone considers him ridiculously tall so I'd say 5'11" to 6'2"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Quarterbacks are 6'5".

But I think 6'1" or 6'2" is considered the ideal.
 

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I'm 6'3, 6'4 with my polo boots on.

Wish I was 6'5. I'd be in the NBA with them 2 inches.
 

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I'm 6'0 exactly barefoot (well 183 cm which is like 1/16 of an inch over) and find myself wishing I were 6'1 or 6'2. Lots of guys at my college who are around that height. Of course this doesn't make them especially appealing if their faces are busted or are out of shape (the vast majority are LOL)

But I feel like if you have a good package, then being a great height can really boost you. I'd love to be 6'2.
 

Just a Shot Away

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6'2 is solid. Anything under 6'0 is sketchy. Although, if your game is solid enough it doesn't really matter. I've seen 5'4 and under dudes pull bombshells that absolutely tower over them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chickfight

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I'm 6ft2 and handsome. Got me a couple girls sole based on that before I developed any game. Once you reach a certain level though, these things become less and less important. Confidence transcends everything.

6ft2 handsome guy with decent game vs a 5ft5 average looking guy with godly game. The latter will win out.
 

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I'm dead on 6ft but I'm a 21 yr old vrigin

I have a really short friend about under 5 ft, I could beat the guy up with both hands tied behind my back.

He has a really hot girlfriend and can get any other girl he wants within seconds and she lets him - I don't know how he does it.

So I don't think height is the be all and end all.
 

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Eternal_water said:
I'm dead on 6ft but I'm a 21 yr old vrigin

I have a really short friend about under 5 ft, I could beat the guy up with both hands tied behind my back.

He has a really hot girlfriend and can get any other girl he wants within seconds and she lets him - I don't know how he does it.

So I don't think height is the be all and end all.

Confidence thats why. Confidence will get the ugliest scrubs dimepieces. I have seen it all the time!
 

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Lol @ people making a big deal of height to get girls. First of all, physical appearance is not that important (as long as you meet a minimum standard, which is pretty low, e.g. not be deformed). Every PUA knows this.

Second of all, even WITHIN the realm of physical appearance, height is not that important. Again, as long as you meet a minimum standard (and I'd say that standard is being taller than the girl), face >>> body (muscle/tone) >>> height.

But people LOVE to nitpick about height, simply because it's something so easily quantifiable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chickfight said:
I'm 6ft2 and handsome. Got me a couple girls sole based on that before I developed any game. Once you reach a certain level though, these things become less and less important. Confidence transcends everything.

6ft2 handsome guy with decent game vs a 5ft5 average looking guy with godly game. The latter will win out.
Correct sir. My two younger brothers are both taller than me (6'3 and 6'1),
I'm 5'10". The 6'1" married young at 22 to his high school sweetheart, while the 6'3" obsesses over body image and penis size insecurities.

Sure, they get more attention than I do because of their height, but they never take full of advantage of it so really it means nothing. Both of them are lazy when it comes to women and their results reflect their lack of game.
 

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i'm a somewhere between 5'9 and 5'10. id love to be 6'1
 

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average height. maybe an inch more? 5'9 or 5'-10 at the most. I never really felt a need or want to be tall.
 

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I am 5 feet 9 inches, and i too wish i was 6 feet...

But since i cannot do anything about it, why cry about it?

(I must admit it has, and sometimes still are, a huge issue for me) :
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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