"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Icing On The Cake : (Superficial Worries)

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I've seen a few threads on here specifically "I hate to admit it but Money Matters," that revolve around superficial worries and feeling inferior.

Material wealth, nice cars, a nice place, and VIP treatment is all icing on the cake.

I understand how driving a crappy car and barely getting by while watching movies and TV and being influenced by advertisements abound can leave you down and even make you feel inferior, but you HAVE TO remember that it's all Icing On The Cake.

You see successful and rich men everywhere settling for gold diggers and generally being fooled into latching onto a woman early. ALL the time.

They are just icing. They are very sweet, very enjoyable and good looking but they have no substance. They have nothing to offer but this extremely sweet sugary substance.

Material wealth does not make you a don juan. As canned and as cheesy as this sounds it's WHAT'S INSIDE that makes you who you are.

Without the cake the icing is nothing more than something to dip your finger in or keep around for sneaking a scoop in here and there.

Just as rich men are kept around simply for a womans material pleasure and status quo. Very sweet, very enjoyable but short lived and used.

YOU are the don juan. Focus on what's inside and how to build yourself there. Because that is what matters. Bake your cake, then figure out what type of icing you want and how you want the icing to look.

A cake is enjoyed through and through, devoured, and left to crumbs.

Even a cake without icing is enjoyable. It has substance.

Once you have achieved an instinctive level of game, that is when the icing matters.

A don juan WITH all of these nice things will have that much greater of an impact. You will be wanted, enjoyed, and devoured.

You wont be a little treat to dip a finger in.

Remember that 90% of rich men out there have not a clue on WHAT WE KNOW.

A nice watch, a nice car, and a fat wallet is an extension. It is something on the outside. By no means does this make you a man. When you are a Don Juan, and you have been baked, THAT is when all this icing just makes you that much sweeter.

Hell, I can think of times where I had NO MONEY whatsoever in my wallet and barely enough gas to even get the girl to a place where we could be alone! Still struck a home run that night.

Remember, 90% of men out there dont have a clue. The word is spreading though. More and more men are figuring out about dating tips and it is starting to become publicized.

This means you can't waste time not working on yourself and worrying and moping about. This means that you need to go NOW and start baking!

Stop pre heating the oven, go bake yourself.

The icing is nothing without the cake.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BrokenPath said:
...Stop pre heating the oven, go bake yourself.

The icing is nothing without the cake.
Well put. None the less, there are those who do not know how to bake a cake so they need money in order to buy one.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well put. None the less, there are those who do not know how to bake a cake so they need money in order to buy one.
And some of us buy from costco in bulk!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Charm said:
And some of us buy from costco in bulk!
And some guys settle for good ol' "Generic" quality...
 

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Are we still talking about women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Depends, how much money you got?
 
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