Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Icing On The Cake : (Superficial Worries)

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I've seen a few threads on here specifically "I hate to admit it but Money Matters," that revolve around superficial worries and feeling inferior.

Material wealth, nice cars, a nice place, and VIP treatment is all icing on the cake.

I understand how driving a crappy car and barely getting by while watching movies and TV and being influenced by advertisements abound can leave you down and even make you feel inferior, but you HAVE TO remember that it's all Icing On The Cake.

You see successful and rich men everywhere settling for gold diggers and generally being fooled into latching onto a woman early. ALL the time.

They are just icing. They are very sweet, very enjoyable and good looking but they have no substance. They have nothing to offer but this extremely sweet sugary substance.

Material wealth does not make you a don juan. As canned and as cheesy as this sounds it's WHAT'S INSIDE that makes you who you are.

Without the cake the icing is nothing more than something to dip your finger in or keep around for sneaking a scoop in here and there.

Just as rich men are kept around simply for a womans material pleasure and status quo. Very sweet, very enjoyable but short lived and used.

YOU are the don juan. Focus on what's inside and how to build yourself there. Because that is what matters. Bake your cake, then figure out what type of icing you want and how you want the icing to look.

A cake is enjoyed through and through, devoured, and left to crumbs.

Even a cake without icing is enjoyable. It has substance.

Once you have achieved an instinctive level of game, that is when the icing matters.

A don juan WITH all of these nice things will have that much greater of an impact. You will be wanted, enjoyed, and devoured.

You wont be a little treat to dip a finger in.

Remember that 90% of rich men out there have not a clue on WHAT WE KNOW.

A nice watch, a nice car, and a fat wallet is an extension. It is something on the outside. By no means does this make you a man. When you are a Don Juan, and you have been baked, THAT is when all this icing just makes you that much sweeter.

Hell, I can think of times where I had NO MONEY whatsoever in my wallet and barely enough gas to even get the girl to a place where we could be alone! Still struck a home run that night.

Remember, 90% of men out there dont have a clue. The word is spreading though. More and more men are figuring out about dating tips and it is starting to become publicized.

This means you can't waste time not working on yourself and worrying and moping about. This means that you need to go NOW and start baking!

Stop pre heating the oven, go bake yourself.

The icing is nothing without the cake.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BrokenPath said:
...Stop pre heating the oven, go bake yourself.

The icing is nothing without the cake.
Well put. None the less, there are those who do not know how to bake a cake so they need money in order to buy one.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well put. None the less, there are those who do not know how to bake a cake so they need money in order to buy one.
And some of us buy from costco in bulk!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Charm said:
And some of us buy from costco in bulk!
And some guys settle for good ol' "Generic" quality...
 

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Are we still talking about women?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Depends, how much money you got?
 
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