"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so i looked at the back of an icecream bucket today and for 1/2 cup :

105 cal
3.5g total fat
2g sat fat
11g sugar

i mean, this isn't really that bad is it? i used to think that icecream was like the devil, but it's not too bad...right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oh hey and 1 more question:

is peanut butter good or bad for you? cause it seems like to me that it's a fatty food, but it's just crushed peanuts, so ...
 

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A half a cup? What is that, 3 maybe 4 spoonfuls?
 

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Yea, that's the problem. Most serving sizes listed on foods are very small portions. I think they get Paris Hilton to do the servings haha
 

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I decided to have an "Eat Stupid" week starting last saturday (I've been cutting). Along with two tuna hoagies, god only knows how much pizza, and a half gallon of strawberry milk, I ate a half gallon of peanut butter ripple chocolate icecream this week. I gained 4 lbs by thurday morning.

Needless to say, I cut "Eat Stupid" week short by a couple days.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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peanut butter has phytoestrogens in it (being a legume and not a nut) so better choices would be almond, hazelnut, walnut butters etc.. but I love peanut butter so it's staying. lol
 

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When i had an eat stupid day (entire bags of snickers bars... 5 plates of chinese food, etc) back when i was about 22-23 i'd lose a pound or two overnight.

Metabolism is a terrible thing to lose :(
 

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Mmm... peanut butter. I love Skippy's natural PB. You don't have to stir it. Good ****.

I'm not too concerned with the weight gain. I aleady dropped 1.5 lbs since last weigh in. Probably drop it all and then some by monday morning. I just had a real bad case of the munchies this week. Had to do it.
 

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monster squad said:
Mmm... peanut butter. I love Skippy's natural PB. You don't have to stir it. Good ****.
its not all natural then if you dont have to stir it.
 

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You don't have to mix it because they use palm oil rather than peanut oil. Plus there's some sugar (real sugar), but whatever. It tastes better than any other I've tried, and no trans-fat. I'm not gonna complain.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wats an eat stupid day?? and is ther any point to it lol??
 

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It's just a day to let loose and pig out. A lot of people give themselves a day like that as an incentive/reward for eating a structured diet the other 6 days of the week.
 

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eating peanutbutter will give you cancer.

only PB from dry areas (ie. Arizona) are safe and do not contain aflatoxin.

yeah I think I will incorporate a cheat day into my week. actually I think it'll be a CHEAT MEAL per week
 

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Potbelly said:
eating peanutbutter will give you cancer.

only PB from dry areas (ie. Arizona) are safe and do not contain aflatoxin.

yeah I think I will incorporate a cheat day into my week. actually I think it'll be a CHEAT MEAL per week
not sure what aflatoxin is but you should be worried about the hydrogenated oil thats in it.
 

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aflatoxin

Yes the hydrogenated oil is bad as well. Anything that does not seem like it occurs naturally in nature is not great....natural stuff is good. That's why fruit, fish, yams, etc. are good because you eat them like our ancestors probably woulda ate them except now we can clean them better and cook them better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when i feel like eating ice cream... which is not often, i do not look at the label.
i mean i hardly eat it and when i do, i just want to enjoy it.
 

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if you are bulking up is it ok if you eat one or two peanut butter sandwiches? not sure if peanut butter makes you fat or not since its a legume
 

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Well, you got a lowfat ice cream there. The thing is if you look at Edy's ice cream or something like that it will say 14 servings, but I eat them in 3 or 4 servings. The lowfat is usually 4.5g so you gotta times that by about 3 lol. I mean if you have the metabolism you can handle it every once in a while, but don't make it a part of your diet.
 
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