"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I woul'd rather bang a decent young girl than a hot girl in her late 20s or early 30s

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What "hot" middle aged women? Most I see have ***** attitudes, missing teeth, bags under eyes, paling skin, and just not caring what they look like.

The only girls I find attractive are younger than 30. Sure, there are some women 30-35 I could go for, but no exceptions over age 40
 

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You say that as if it was a desiderable thing.
It is, unless you are a guy who is intimidated because you prefer women who won't know that you aren't very good.
 

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It is, unless you are a guy who is intimidated because you prefer women who won't know that you aren't very good.
Yeah Im intimidated from women with countless sexual partners as much as strong women, feminists and of course confident fatties.

I also buy new cars because Im afraid of not being able to drive used ones as good as the previous owners, broken brakes and screwed engines have nothing to do with it of course.

Guilty as charged :lol:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah Im intimidated from women with countless sexual partners as much as strong women, feminists and of course confident fatties.

I also buy new cars because Im afraid of not being able to drive used ones as good as the previous owners, broken brakes and screwed engines have nothing to do with it of course.

Guilty as charged :lol:
I simply disagree with your premise...half these 20 year olds these days have fvcked more than a lot of 30 year olds
 

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I think a lot of younger guys go for older milfs because they are (at least in their minds) easier. I also think it's unresolved mommy issues.
 
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Experience in the bedroom
I simply disagree with your premise...half these 20 year olds these days have fvcked more than a lot of 30 year olds
So first you say older women have more to offer than younger ones cause they have more experience in the bedroom then you say a lot of younger women had sex with more men than older ones?

Man I really appreciate your posts when it comes of fitness but Im kinda confused from what you say here.
 

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Nah, men in middle age crisis buy sports cars to make them feel young again. How many young guys do you know have luxury cars? Many older guys buy luxury cars because for the first time they can afford them, and want to treat themselves to some luxury and comfort. The younger guys like the faster cars, but they're definitely not as comfortable.
lol, you didn't understand me, my point was that Milfs bang young men to feel younger is the same reason men buy luxury cars.
 

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I simply disagree with your premise...half these 20 year olds these days have fvcked more than a lot of 30 year olds
This is very true.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My guess is that it's not so much that the older women is always more EXPERIENCED per se, but she is simply more comfortable with sex because of her age. Sex is less of a big deal to older people. So while the 20 yo girl could have more partners, she is still young and her hamster is spinning before (during and after) each hookup. "OMG, I think I'm gonna kinda sorta hook up again this week. I mean he's hot af, but my friend doesn't like him, but I guess we should still do it."

The older woman is more like, "Yeah, I met this guy. He's staying over. I'll call you <her friend> tomorrow with the details. Later lol."
 
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Its simple when youre young you like older women better and in reverse, some of these milfs look and feel like 18 y olds, if they exercise and stuff. So you get a pretty fit woman + experienced in bed which is a straight plus in my book - what if shes slept with more people than you, you jelly? Ofc the trick is to not be a chump provider but thats universal.

And its a known fact older guys would die for an 18 yearl old but Ill talk about it when I get there
 

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Its simple when youre young you like older women better and in reverse, some of these milfs look and feel like 18 y olds, if they exercise and stuff. So you get a pretty fit woman + experienced in bed which is a straight plus in my book - what if shes slept with more people than you, you jelly? Ofc the trick is to not be a chump provider but thats universal.

And its a known fact older guys would die for an 18 yearl old but Ill talk about it when I get there
What is the good of a six pack if she's missing half her teeth and her face is wrinkled as a grocery bag?
 
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