Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
I've met a 22yr girl on happn. She showed a high interest level, after some days she said she deleted the app. We've been dating since thursday.
She said she never had a serious relationship, only one who last 1 month. And I think she was 14yr in that one. Then I would imagine only casual dating. She seems a quiet woman.
At the second date we stayed at my car in front of her house. We have some hot kisses and she sayed to go to a dark street. I found one but I felt freaked out... It seems like I was going to be assaulted in any moment. We came back.
Yesterday I asked her why she couldn't come to my place, it is safer, we could enjoy having sex in a more comfortable way. She said she would come here if her brother didn't live in the same apartment complex as I live.
Then started that family talk. My parents would not allow that, only if we are on a serious relationship, but first you have to come here to ask them permission. And that sounds a bit weird. And thats why:
Her mother knows she is not virgin (didnt lost with me), she knows she might have some casual datings and probably are fcking on streets or even at motels.
She even suggested me to went to motel yesterday, but I personally hate those places. We went to that street again and tried to have sex, but it doesn't work.
So in my logic, wouldn't it be safer and better to be honest with her mother saying that we want to stay here, that would be safer than lying and pretending we are going out and fcking at motels or in the car?
She is showing high interest and desire for me, and she have some nice qualities like splitting the account on a restaurant, have a nice personality (for what I've known so far).
It seems like a traditional way of dating, but sometimes it seems it might be a red flag too or that there is something wrong. Could you give me some thoughts on that.
She said she never had a serious relationship, only one who last 1 month. And I think she was 14yr in that one. Then I would imagine only casual dating. She seems a quiet woman.
At the second date we stayed at my car in front of her house. We have some hot kisses and she sayed to go to a dark street. I found one but I felt freaked out... It seems like I was going to be assaulted in any moment. We came back.
Yesterday I asked her why she couldn't come to my place, it is safer, we could enjoy having sex in a more comfortable way. She said she would come here if her brother didn't live in the same apartment complex as I live.
Then started that family talk. My parents would not allow that, only if we are on a serious relationship, but first you have to come here to ask them permission. And that sounds a bit weird. And thats why:
Her mother knows she is not virgin (didnt lost with me), she knows she might have some casual datings and probably are fcking on streets or even at motels.
She even suggested me to went to motel yesterday, but I personally hate those places. We went to that street again and tried to have sex, but it doesn't work.
So in my logic, wouldn't it be safer and better to be honest with her mother saying that we want to stay here, that would be safer than lying and pretending we are going out and fcking at motels or in the car?
She is showing high interest and desire for me, and she have some nice qualities like splitting the account on a restaurant, have a nice personality (for what I've known so far).
It seems like a traditional way of dating, but sometimes it seems it might be a red flag too or that there is something wrong. Could you give me some thoughts on that.
