"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wonder why

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Sato21m

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I remember when i first came to this forums and why...
Now i got my gf we been goin out for more than a year and i still think about that onetitis ofcourse i know there is not chance but once in a while she cross my mind.
I could say i still imagine how would have been if I knew the reality back then and that if i get a second chance how different everything will be.
The funny thing is that i only went out with that girl for like 2 months, but w/e. I think i'm not in love with my ltr and thats why i have these thoughs.

Any of you guys still think about that girl the one that make you find this place.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gav

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yeh, but i was only after her for her looks. stupid to think that, cuz if you take a look around there's a million other girls who could compete
 
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Alex_L

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YEAH :( regret sucks ..I know all my mistakes just wished I never did them,.. al u can take from it is learning what not too do next time and take it as an experince
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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