"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sato21m

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I remember when i first came to this forums and why...
Now i got my gf we been goin out for more than a year and i still think about that onetitis ofcourse i know there is not chance but once in a while she cross my mind.
I could say i still imagine how would have been if I knew the reality back then and that if i get a second chance how different everything will be.
The funny thing is that i only went out with that girl for like 2 months, but w/e. I think i'm not in love with my ltr and thats why i have these thoughs.

Any of you guys still think about that girl the one that make you find this place.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gav

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yeh, but i was only after her for her looks. stupid to think that, cuz if you take a look around there's a million other girls who could compete
 
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YEAH :( regret sucks ..I know all my mistakes just wished I never did them,.. al u can take from it is learning what not too do next time and take it as an experince
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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