Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Maxtro said:
LOL do you consider fat girls 6's and 7's?NeoDregan said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I WILL get laid before I turn 19 ! ! !
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good luck in getting laid. Don't get so downbeat about being a virgin. You know, there's very little difference between guys who are virgins and guys who have ****ed only 1-3 girls, not through LTR's either. We're talking cirumstantial stuff and luck seperating these, not skills with women per se. Most men don't get laid tbh, so try and become a DJ in the long run; have control in getting sex. If I can get laid from a cold approach, I'll feel that'll be my first 'true' lay where I did everything on my own from open to close.
It's not about using MM, but it's about getting good with women. This requires practice, experience and the skill set has to be acquired. After last night's discussions you realise how it has to be learnt one way or another, for EVERYONE. Most people haven't learnt it and probably never will. Go out and learn it.ChrizZ said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
TOTALLY
WRONG
ATTITUDE
Few things turn off a woman more than a man with an obvious agenda to get laid. It's the very premise of countless grade-Z teen comedies.
Focus on improving yourself and having a good time, and the "getting laid" bit will take care of itself when the time is right. Maybe even much earlier than you expect, if your focus is right.
WRONG
ATTITUDE
Few things turn off a woman more than a man with an obvious agenda to get laid. It's the very premise of countless grade-Z teen comedies.
Focus on improving yourself and having a good time, and the "getting laid" bit will take care of itself when the time is right. Maybe even much earlier than you expect, if your focus is right.
It's not wrong. If you get the skill set then you'll become less bothered by it anyway. But it has to be gained one way or another. You have to know how to approach, talk to women and get them into bed. And ok let's forget about the getting laid agenda as you call it. Let's say getting a girlfriend. You need the skill set to get a girlfriend, and sex is a part of that of course.Bonhomme said:
Many guys improve themselves, have a good time with friends and are sociable, they still don't get laid or have gfs. Most guys aren't that sexually active, period. Men don't get laid. That's what summarises it for me.
It doesn't take care of itself. Myth again. YOU have to take care of it. It's totally fine if you already have the skill set and you take things easy as you described and still get women, but it's a completely different thing to take it easy when you don't get the women you want.
And to be honest, whenever I go into clubs, 99 % of guys are desperately looking at women and wishing they could shag them and many are single. Enough are good looking or at least it ain't a problem. They go home and wank themselves to sleep.
Solution: Accept you aren't born with the ability to pick up girls within this social matrix, and learn to do so.
Stats like "the median 22 year old girl has more than twice the sex of the median 22 year old guy", "guys depression and suicide rates are far higher than womens" and the study where 99 % of guys accepted sex from a hot girl but nearly 0 women did from a hot guy, suggest you need to take action and gain the skill set to attract women.
And in all honesty, unless you can just walk into a club or to a social gathering and nearly guarantee that you can pick up a woman of your liking, then you haven't got that skill set. The vast majority of guys don't have that skill set. I've only met one in my entire life.
decadentdestruction
Don Juan
hooker in tijuana, 60 bucks a pop... and u get a free donkey show .. lol hey man I totally give u mad props man for getting laid b4 you turn 19 . Good luck and beat that p***y like it owes u $