"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I will do my 1st cold/warm approach tomorow dedicated to DJ forums.

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Thanks alot for the encouragement and inspiration.

I cannot express how much these information has given me. They have helped me see my wrongs... And have revealed the mysteries in my previous AFC relationships.

Now please do not think this is a worthless thread. I feel that I need to do this in order to actually get over my fear of approaching and being rejected.


To Whom It May Concern:

I Playa in Trainin' am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an AFC.

I will be on my way to progressing DJ status in the near future.

I hereby declare that after this thread has been posted there is no more turning back.

I only ask of you're full support & inspiration that everyone has given me so far.

The approach that will be made tomorow will be sometime in between 12:00-7:30 pm at campus. This will be my first knowledgable approach.

This approach is dedicated to everyone in sosuave forums. To the DJ's that have helped me, inspired and supported me. To the AFC's reading this this is for you too. If I can do this approach, so can you!

The target will be a girl rating 6/10 - 8/10. This may not be a big deal to many of you and may come out as a joke, but i'm really serious.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok..I expect full report!
Good luck..and try not to think about girls as not humans...they eat amd sh1t just like us.
 

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How bout you just do it ... for you?

I think you are putting yourself too much pressure. What you need is will power, not a 'thread officializing everything.'

I understand it is important for you - but wether it will work or not ... it's up to you - not making a thread.

anyways...


GL
GHOST
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good luck! I want a field report posted afterwards! Remember, YOU are the prize. The change begins within yourself and radiates forward. As you think, so shall you become. Think like DJ and witness the change for yourself.

Rock on man
 

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Hey it's been two days, I'm dying to know what happened and if you went through with it
 
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