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CrazyClubber

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Rejoined Tinder at 12pm yesterday, by 8 had a girl come around. She was fine, massive tits. Few kids, so not partner material. Presumed I would shag her. Got on well, she was highly interested, snogged, felt each other up, then she said she didnt sleep with people on first dates anymore, still pushed forwar, she said she had to go home to her kids.

Today she text me to say I wasnt her type.

This is rare for me.

Now this is no loss at all, but I want to learn from it.

I reckon my presumption and lechyness did me in, fellas what do you reckon?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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jafman

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Didn’t sleep with people on first dates ‘anymore’

so she developed standards on the night she met you….

did you brush your teeth?
 

SmoothHendrixPS2

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I wouldn't recommend spending time with someone off tinder the day you match.
 

jaymbrs

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Amazing how guys think the women are the problem when they don't immediately pull their pants down and shove their salami down their throat 30 seconds after walking in the door.
I haven’t read a post in this thread blaming the woman, prior to your post. The OP literally asked what he did wrong.
 

Murk

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Didn't look like your pics/wasn't sexy enough to wet her naan.
 

ThisIsSparta

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Rejoined Tinder at 12pm yesterday, by 8 had a girl come around. She was fine, massive tits. Few kids, so not partner material. Presumed I would shag her. Got on well, she was highly interested, snogged, felt each other up, then she said she didnt sleep with people on first dates anymore, still pushed forwar, she said she had to go home to her kids.

Today she text me to say I wasnt her type.

This is rare for me.

Now this is no loss at all, but I want to learn from it.

I reckon my presumption and lechyness did me in, fellas what do you reckon?
Dont invite women directly to your place for a first date. Pictures mean nothing today and she could be batshytcrazy.

Most likely she felt your need for pvssy and wasnt turned on by it.
 

BackInTheGame78

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Dont invite women directly to your place for a first date. Pictures mean nothing today and she could be batshytcrazy.

Most likely she felt your need for pvssy and wasnt turned on by it.
Yeah not a great move...although when we were in lockdown I did use this to invite women over to cook dinner with me on the first date and it worked remarkably well...banged 4/6 and got a BJ/HJ from one of the others and she swallowed the load.

The one I didn't get anywhere with was the hottest tho, and I was pissed at myself I couldn't make that happen.
 

ThisIsSparta

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Yeah not a great move...although when we were in lockdown I did use this to invite women over to cook dinner with me on the first date and it worked remarkably well...
Of course, desperate times demand desperate measures. :D

And most of the time it should work out fine, but there have been some 1st dates i was happy not having at my place.
 
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