"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Went Skydiving! Try it!

Marlimus

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Okay, this has nothing to do with seduction or women.
This semester i went skydiving with a few other friends and it was fantastic. I just wanted to remind you DJ's that being a Don Juan is also about living a full and active life, that's why we make a distinction between the PUA and the Don Juan.

Anyway, if you live in the Northern New Jersey/ New York area, go to:

Freefall Adventures, Inc
300 Dahlia Avenue,
Williamstown, NJ 08094

or call 888 855 JUMP

Its $175 a jump, $215 if you want it videotaped

Try it! At least once
See you later my fellow DJ's
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marlimus

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P.S - Stereotypically enough, quite a few of the instructors were Australian. The Aussies have balls of steel, apparently!:rockon:
 

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Originally posted by Marlimus
P.S - Stereotypically enough, quite a few of the instructors were Australian. The Aussies have balls of steel, apparently!:rockon:
yay Aussies.

I'm really keen to give it a try. Probably once I finish studying, and begin working full time, so then I'll have money to burn :)
 

manuva

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Yeah more Aussies have been skydiving per capita than any other country in the world. Wicked fun, huh?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I took my ex hang gliding last year for her birthday. I thought it was cool, and she LOVED it. I guess skydiving is next on the list....
 

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I have watch many video captures pilots parachuting during World War II.

To risk dieing in a dog fight is one thing but then when your severely injured, your co pilot is dead and your plane can not fly no more. You then risk your life jumping out of a burning plane at 20,000 feet, with a high risk the parachute may have been damaged.


To die from skydiving because you were curious and you thought it was fun, is practical foolishness, and a wasted life. No one will remember you.

But to die fighting with all your might is Honor to its most fullest. And will be remember for there service.
 

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Can you do skydiving for $20? I can't afford the prices. Maybe I could just do 1 jump to learn the safety stuff (ie. not jumping into the sea or a hot volcano) and bring a parachute to a friend's cargo plane and jump off.
 

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Can you do skydiving for $20? I can't afford the prices. Maybe I could just do 1 jump to learn the safety stuff (ie. not jumping into the sea or a hot volcano) and bring a parachute to a friend's cargo plane and jump off.
Yeah... good idea. :rolleyes:

:crackup:

white people
Black people.... Mexicans.... Asians.... Filipinos....

How do you like it, ****head?:down:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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