"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I went out with a friend and 2 girls tonight

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop asking why, and try to answer how.
 
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Desdinova said:
Since this is the solution, why are you posting? Perhaps Loveshack.org would be more suitable for your posting needs.
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I don't think he was saying that was the solution, he was offering this as proof that those types of women were available.
That said, if he's as gorgeous as he says he is, he should do well on OLD, since looks is the main thing they have to go on.
 
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Exactly, go the OLD route and meet these chicks who are clearly attracted to you from the off in an isolated environment.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko said:
I don't think he was saying that was the solution, he was offering this as proof that those types of women were available.
That said, if he's as gorgeous as he says he is, he should do well on OLD, since looks is the main thing they have to go on.
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I posted a pic of myself

I'm about a 6.5 to 7/10 in pics...about 8/10 in real life. The problem is even 7/10 females online want 10/10 males
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
You have vastly less life experience than I do.

You have never seen the world.
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I highly doubt that.

Yes, I have seen the world. Lived, not just travelled, in several different countries. Doubt you have been out of your state, apart from getting shipped to prison.

Fluent in more than one language. Not only picked up women in a foreign language but had a three year relationship where both of us conversed in a foreign language (language of the country where we were living)

And you can't even pick up women in your native language!!!!

It's funny how you say "you don't know me" to everyone. Yet you know everyone's life story and success rate

Anyway, our conversation ends here.

Good luck on your journey.
 
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Reykhel said:
I highly doubt that.

Yes, I have seen the world. Lived, not just travelled, in several different countries. Doubt you have been out of your state, apart from getting shipped to prison.

Fluent in more than one language. Not only picked up women in a foreign language but had a three year relationship where both of us conversed in a foreign language (language of the country where we were living)

And you can't even pick up women in your native language!!!!

It's funny how you say "you don't know me" to everyone. Yet you know everyone's life story and success rate

Anyway, our conversation ends here.

Good luck on your journey.
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Show a picture of some of your girls.

About 80% of what you said was inaccurate, but oh well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigdave17 said:
I'm about a 6.5 to 7/10 in pics...about 8/10 in real life. The problem is even 7/10 females online want 10/10 males
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First off, get better pics. Then, when those girls fail to get those 10s, maybe they'll give you a tumble,
 
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bigdave17 said:
I'm hot, make top 0.001% money for my age range, perfect age for a man (28-29), no kids, educated and intelligent. Why am I single?

I dunno why you put in exotic in that group. I'm cool with a standard 7/10 Italian or Greek girl who makes 50K a year with a decent job. I'm not looking for a Brazilian supermodel




the problem with college girls is they're usually too unstable/immature/flaky/irresponsible/don't know what they want/etc... I'm in a different stage in life brother. I have my career and my house and friends and family all within 10 minutes of me. I can't date a college chick who might want to move to California when she is done with school.
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Brazilian supermodel? You mean like this girl I could be with for a certain amount...

And she is not disease ridden. She's hot af.
 

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bigdave17 said:
dude I don't get a chance to show any emotions

when I'm around a woman who is attracted to me, I am very very very good. I just don't have any opportunities with anybody anywhere near my league
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Sounds like either an inner game issue or a lack of making cold approaches.
 
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