"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I went out with a friend and 2 girls tonight

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop asking why, and try to answer how.
 

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Since this is the solution, why are you posting? Perhaps Loveshack.org would be more suitable for your posting needs.
I don't think he was saying that was the solution, he was offering this as proof that those types of women were available.
That said, if he's as gorgeous as he says he is, he should do well on OLD, since looks is the main thing they have to go on.
 

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Exactly, go the OLD route and meet these chicks who are clearly attracted to you from the off in an isolated environment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think he was saying that was the solution, he was offering this as proof that those types of women were available.
That said, if he's as gorgeous as he says he is, he should do well on OLD, since looks is the main thing they have to go on.
I posted a pic of myself

I'm about a 6.5 to 7/10 in pics...about 8/10 in real life. The problem is even 7/10 females online want 10/10 males
 

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You have vastly less life experience than I do.

You have never seen the world.
I highly doubt that.

Yes, I have seen the world. Lived, not just travelled, in several different countries. Doubt you have been out of your state, apart from getting shipped to prison.

Fluent in more than one language. Not only picked up women in a foreign language but had a three year relationship where both of us conversed in a foreign language (language of the country where we were living)

And you can't even pick up women in your native language!!!!

It's funny how you say "you don't know me" to everyone. Yet you know everyone's life story and success rate

Anyway, our conversation ends here.

Good luck on your journey.
 
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I highly doubt that.

Yes, I have seen the world. Lived, not just travelled, in several different countries. Doubt you have been out of your state, apart from getting shipped to prison.

Fluent in more than one language. Not only picked up women in a foreign language but had a three year relationship where both of us conversed in a foreign language (language of the country where we were living)

And you can't even pick up women in your native language!!!!

It's funny how you say "you don't know me" to everyone. Yet you know everyone's life story and success rate

Anyway, our conversation ends here.

Good luck on your journey.
Show a picture of some of your girls.

About 80% of what you said was inaccurate, but oh well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm about a 6.5 to 7/10 in pics...about 8/10 in real life. The problem is even 7/10 females online want 10/10 males
First off, get better pics. Then, when those girls fail to get those 10s, maybe they'll give you a tumble,
 
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I'm hot, make top 0.001% money for my age range, perfect age for a man (28-29), no kids, educated and intelligent. Why am I single?

I dunno why you put in exotic in that group. I'm cool with a standard 7/10 Italian or Greek girl who makes 50K a year with a decent job. I'm not looking for a Brazilian supermodel




the problem with college girls is they're usually too unstable/immature/flaky/irresponsible/don't know what they want/etc... I'm in a different stage in life brother. I have my career and my house and friends and family all within 10 minutes of me. I can't date a college chick who might want to move to California when she is done with school.
Brazilian supermodel? You mean like this girl I could be with for a certain amount...

And she is not disease ridden. She's hot af.
 

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dude I don't get a chance to show any emotions

when I'm around a woman who is attracted to me, I am very very very good. I just don't have any opportunities with anybody anywhere near my league
Sounds like either an inner game issue or a lack of making cold approaches.
 
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