"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i went on a blind date

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One of my friends hooked me up with it. I wasn't gunna go but I decided to because I'd never been on one before and thought it would be kinda fun. :/

I go meet her and I see her, and this chick is ugly and like 2 stone over weight. I felt like running at that time but she was already walking towards me. And she brought 2 of her friends that just happened to appear after about 15 minutes.

I was bored and didnt even talk to her that much. But then she texts me later on at night telling me she really liked me and she wanted to make sure I didn't want to use her for sex. haha


Has any one else ever been on a blind date thats gone err bad?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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onyx said:
But then she texts me later on at night telling me she really liked me and she wanted to make sure I didn't want to use her for sex. haha
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lol! She wants to f.uck you really bad.
 
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There's nothing worse than friends setting you up on blind dates. More times than not they don't take into account if either of you have anything in common; their only criteria is that the two of you are single. Next time someone suggests that you meet someone blindly, ask for a picture and a bio, it's not like you can send your order back once the date begins.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
There's nothing worse than friends setting you up on blind dates. More times than not they don't take into account if either of you have anything in common; their only criteria is that the two of you are single. Next time someone suggests that you meet someone blindly, ask for a picture and a bio, it's not like you can send your order back once the date begins.
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it wasnt exactly a blind date she sent me a picture to my phone..my mate didnt know her either really..it was a friend of her friends..and they asked me if I would do it

***** was ugly..she sent me a picture before so I would know what she looked like..kinda..the picture looked NOTHING like her..the picture she sent was of a cute quite slim blonde chick with curly long hair...the chick i met had a double chin and straight mousey blonde hair...i think she sent me a old pic or something
 
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Gents, everytime a friend is setting you up on a blind date, just know that the girl is always the one who will be getting the better end of it. Either you, the man, will be more attractive, because if she was hot, she'd be getting hit on left and right, or she'll have too much baggage.

Girls will look out for girls, so they won't care if she's not your type, as long as they think their friend will like you.

Guys won't set you up with hotties because, lets face it, guys are big c0ckblocks and they rather wait for their chance to hook up with them, or won't want to set you up with a hotter chick than they are.
 
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Gangster, you hit the nail exactly on the head, blind dates are never a good idea.
 
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Onyx,

Your experience reminds me The Office Christmas Special when David Brent met that woman with the scarf...esp, the reaction upon first seeing the woman...way too perfect.
 
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it wasnt exactly a blind date she sent me a picture to my phone..my mate didnt know her either really..it was a friend of her friends..and they asked me if I would do it
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Damn, they collaborated to set you up. I say it's time for retribution! :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gangster Of Love said:
Guys won't set you up with hotties because, lets face it, guys are big c0ckblocks and they rather wait for their chance to hook up with them, or won't want to set you up with a hotter chick than they are.
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Gangster, I can't tell you how right you are. I had my best friend call a woman he knew - on my behalf, because I only met her once - to ask her if I could give her a call. What he did was talk to her to see if he could get anywhere with her, and if he couldn't, then he was going to mention my name as a way to bail himself out. I was pissed. He started sleeping with her... I was even more pissed. The best part was when she started mentioning me to him.

The only guy I knew that didn't block and tried to set me up with a cute friend of his was gay.
 
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