"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Went for it! I achieved!

BadBoy10605

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Hello again friends!
Today, after school, I was walking down the hallway, when I seen this hottie that I've been talking about. She starts walking the opposite direction towards me. She sees me and I begin to walk with her. I smile and say "Hey!" She smiles and says "Hey"
Me: (after a slight pause) What is your number?
Danielle: (pauses) and smiles and begins to read off her number 763-03....
Me: Get a pen?
Danielle: No, sorry I don't.
Then we walk by a trashcan and I see a piece of our school newspaper there.
Me: Here write it down on this. (she proceeds)
Me: Want my number too?
Danielle: Yeah! Sure.
I then proceed to write it down. When I hand it to her I say "Now... no calling 10 times a day!" and she laughes and smiles. We both say goodbye and I walk away with a huge smile.

There's one thing that I learned from this week. And that is, if you don't ask for the number then your going to feel so much regret. But even if this chick didn't give me her number I would have felt so releaved and happy because I did what, sadly, many guys don't do. Make like Nike and "Just Do It!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by BadBoy10605:
Hello again friends!
Today, after school, I was walking down the hallway, when I seen this hottie that I've been talking about. She starts walking the opposite direction towards me. She sees me and I begin to walk with her. I smile and say "Hey!" She smiles and says "Hey"
Me: (after a slight pause) What is your number?
Danielle: (pauses) and smiles and begins to read off her number 763-03....
Me: Get a pen?
Danielle: No, sorry I don't.
Then we walk by a trashcan and I see a piece of our school newspaper there.
Me: Here write it down on this. (she proceeds)
Me: Want my number too?
Danielle: Yeah! Sure.
I then proceed to write it down. When I hand it to her I say "Now... no calling 10 times a day!" and she laughes and smiles. We both say goodbye and I walk away with a huge smile.

There's one thing that I learned from this week. And that is, if you don't ask for the number then your going to feel so much regret. But even if this chick didn't give me her number I would have felt so releaved and happy because I did what, sadly, many guys don't do. Make like Nike and "Just Do It!"

Well played. Congrats, you're on your way.





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CASANOVA

"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
 

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that was good, nice to see people taking action and getting somewhere, the only problem i see with this is you giving her your number, that could be percieved as a friendly exchange and nothing more, plus, you want to stay in control, you do not want her to call you.
 

lil devun

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Originally posted by CalmMind:
that was good, nice to see people taking action and getting somewhere, the only problem i see with this is you giving her your number, that could be percieved as a friendly exchange and nothing more, plus, you want to stay in control, you do not want her to call you.
good point, but also if she has high interest then its easy to tell right away
 

De La Soul

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If you don't shoot you can't score and at the end of the day, regret at doing nothing is much worse than regret at taking action.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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De La Soul

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It's a badly-kept secret.
(in fact I've never regretted taking the initiative) lol
 
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