"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I went AFC on her, is it too late to pull it back???

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I never understood why men put so much thought and stock into non-marital relations, where the risk of monetary loss is nil.

Once men begin to understand that their happiness can be greater outside of exclusivity rather than in, all these "expectations" they saddle upon another become obsolete.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear Bunjy,
Sounds like normal relationship behaviour,they usually start pulling back after about four months into a new relationship,so I think you have had a good run LOL.
 

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Dear Bunjy,
Sounds like normal relationship behaviour,they usually start pulling back after about four months into a new relationship,so I think you have had a good run LOL.
I call it the six-month mental quiz. Her Game= are you hooked? Your response is just what these guys have been saying. Make her show you. If she bolts, get over it.
 

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I'm confused...she's still having sex with you, right? What is there to fix?
Because she's either a wh*re who lets chumps f*ck her that she doesn't like, or.....he's lying.

I'd go with option 2.
 

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There is only one one answer here. Pull back your attention and emotions and act like you did when you first started hanging out with her. If you do anything else you will fail.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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You know when their interested, because you don't have to do much work :)
 
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